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My step son moved in with us 2 months ago. DH has a court date at the end of the month to have the child support dropped but they can't find the mom to serve her papers. We live in another state. Will they drop the child support if she doesn't show up to court
Re: Any family lawyers here
Any attorney who would like to remain licensed won't answer this question on the internet, incluidng me.
Your DH should already have an attorney, if he doesn't, he needs to go get one. Custody, support and the like are really much easier.
I'm not an attorney, so I'll answer the question.
No.
This isn't like traffic court, where the ticket is dismissed if people don't show up. This is custody of a child. All of the paperwork and court actions should have been settled BEFORE stepson moved in with you. Now you are having to do this after the fact.
Thanks for the info on the attorney on staff, if we can't get the papers served this week DH will call them. I don't see the need to hire a lawyer, stepson decided to live with us so we shouldn't have to pay her child support. BTW he will be 20 next month, he is not a child.