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Weeknights - "together?"
So, probably a strange question... but what do you and your spouse do after dinner most evenings? We watch tv during dinner but then it seems like most nights he goes in and works on the computer and after I'm done cleaning up dinner I do a few things here or there and go to bed. I feel like we don't really spend any time together other than eating together...
am I missing something? I guess I'm just curious as to what other couples do before bed... "together."
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Re: Weeknights - "together?"
I teach two nights a week, and he works another, so we're only home Monday nights together. We usually try to either watch something together or read in the same room or just chill on the couch and talk for a while. Sometimes, we do our own things in different rooms. It really just depends on how tired we are or what we have to accomplish that week.
We crochet. WHAT.
We spoon.
I'm the big spoon.
we all fall down sometimes
brass and ballet flats
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we usually have dinner infront of the t.v. too, and then we put things away together and we either watch some shows together, or he'll play video games and I'll do my own thing and then meet up for a show.
A lot of the times after dinner we'll go on a hour walk, it gives us a better chance to talk and just be together.
By 'working on the computer,' do you mean 'waxes his shaft'?
After dinner, we usualkly hump. Have you tried humping? It's real fun, and there are a variety of different kind of humping to mix things up. If you do the same humping every night, it can get boring. Kinda like having franks and beans every night. Everybody likes franks and beans, but have you ever tried having franks and beans for dinner 27 nights in a row? It gets old. It also can limit the types of humping you will be up to when it comes to humpy humpy time. We usually have dinner at 7, put the baby to bed at 9, and then hump from 9:15 - 9:26. That's Eastern Standard time. Just in case you wanted to synchronize your humping schedule to ours so you won't feel so alone.
We like to keep to a rotating schedule:
Monday night: Dry humping
Tuesday night: Butt humping (unless it's franks and beans night, in which case we swap Tuesday with Friday)
Wednesday night is Humpday night: Wildcard
Thursday night: Wet humping. Kinda like dry humping only we add salad dressing. I like oily and Jimmy likes creamy, so we usually draw straws to see who gets their way.
Friday night: Double Dutch Hump. It's done exactly the way you'd think.
Saturday night: Pants-on humping (like in high school)
Sunday night: no humping. This is the lord's day.
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I applaud you, good sir.
i was reading this getting jealous of your sex life until i realized you are a fvkcing LIAR!
but the salad dressing had me all "hahahaha" and
at the same time.
@ Groomz -
LOL!
Although I applaud your ability to read between the lines... I actually meant legitimate working from home on the computer (basically doing the same thing he does at work, just after dinner, at home).
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That schedule, whew. It wore me out just to read it!
I sit in my hotel room an feel sorry for myself, or sit in my hotel room and work or read a book. DH plays volleyball two nights of the week, sings in a choir another night, and is supposed to clean up the apartment the final night I'm gone (which sometimes he even does).
But back before that was our normal, we would often play cards or other games, go on long walks, cook dessert, watch movies, do chores or work on projects, go out, or just each do our own things.
We each have our own businesses aside from our regular full-time jobs. After dinner, we'll either work on our business stuff; go for a walk; or just veg on the sofa & watch TV. Nothing spectacular - just time together.