Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Which is worse? Wearing a bandanna or Ed Hardy jeans?
I had my 2nd date with the wrestler last night. He was 30 minutes late and wore Ed Hardy jeans. It was just okay, I mean he's nice and all but we really don't have much chemistry. Plus he works crazy long hours - like 12-16 hr days. He worked all weekend. He didn't wear a bandanna though but he did wear a hat and it was a pretty nice sushi restaurant. Did I mention he wore Ed Hardy jeans? He asked me out for Thu or Fri. I don't know, I just don't think he warrants a 3rd date... I'm starting to get burnt out.
Re: Which is worse? Wearing a bandanna or Ed Hardy jeans?
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
I think the beef everyone (me included) has with Ed Hardy can be traced back to:
I sincerely hope this is sarcasm that I'm missing. Also I wouldn't judge too much on attire, but being 30 minutes late is ridiculous! Did he at least give you a head's up he was running late?
I know, I was pretty pissed. Especially since I live 5 min from the restaurant. We were supposed to meet at 8 and at 8 when I arrive is when he texts me to tell me he hasn't left yet! He had to work late but he could have let me know. He called me at 8:22 to say he was almost there otherwise I was close to leaving. At least the sushi was good. And this was after he cancelled on Friday the morning of.
i didn't get the ed hardy jean hate until right now when i just googled them. gross. do they all have designs on them?
30 minutes late on a second date? big negative. what was his excuse?
it seems like you're not feeling him. don't try to convince yourself to go out with him again.
Were the jeans plain jeans, or did they have some sort of obnoxious design on them? If they were plain, I'd give him a pass on the jeans because some jeans just fit people better even if the brand doesn't define their style. If they had some huge Ed Hardy-style design, it'd be a close call, but I'd still say they were better than a bandana.
The bigger problem is that he was 30 minutes late. That would drive me crazy.
They had a design on the back/ass. It honestly didn't bother me that much, I just thought it was funny since a lot of girls on here listed that as a dealbreaker... I think I could even overlook the being late part if I was crazy about him. I just don't really feel like there is anything there.
A few things that make me go hmmmm...
1. the bandana on the first date (ew)
2. Ed Hardy anything (ew. Shirts/hats are worse, but the jeans I still give a side eye to)
3. hat in a restaurant? side eye.
4. 30 min. late and only letting you know he was going to be late AT the time you were supposed to meet.
Those things, based on the probably-no-chemistry thing after date #2? I'd probably let this one go.
All of this. Unless it was a cowboy hat
. No 3rd date.
You forgot that he will also be 30 minutes late.
3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
I'll admit to having no idea what Ed Hardy was until i went to the website today (apparently I've never had the pleasure of dating someone who's liked it), but ditto all of the above.
I'd say no to the third date.
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
It's the official attire of douchebags worldwide.
He had to work late, he already pushed it back from 7:30 to 8:00 which was no big deal because I live close to the restaurant but he didn't tell me he was running later further until I was already there.
I'm agreeing with both of these.