September 2009 Weddings
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STF
Anyone?
Re: STF
Stand up for something you believe in.
updated 10.03.12
on Wednesday night after dinner, Guy and I snuck off for a quickie. Afterwards, I told him about how four niners announced their pregnancies that day. This was his face:
O_O
Still.
Bleeding.
Congrats to both my TTC buddies, Amberley18 and sb2006 on their beautiful babies!
It has now been 35 days.
Not that I'm counting.
I'm totally jumping him this weekend. I don't care if he wants or not, he's getting it.
I had great sex last night. If there's an upside to ttc this long, it's that at least I'm getting laid regularly.
My parents have been in for a week now and will be in through next weekend and I'll have likely been drunk everyday Saturday they're here...the tension is building my friends.
However, last Saturday before my parents came in, Jay was exhausted but I really wanted some. So I told we had to because it was his last opportunity to sleep with a 27 year old! It got him going...and it was good
We used to in my sexier days, but now it just kinda skeeves me out. Chris never minded, but I kinda think it's gross.... just way too much clean-up, and I feel nasty enough as it is. Waiting the 5 days or so is much more practical IMO.
updated 10.03.12
Negative. I'm too crampy and swollen and uncomfortable, I'm pretty sure it would be the equivalent of stabbing myself repeatedly.
Stand up for something you believe in.
Generally only if it's towards the end and pretty light, then I don't mind at all. Like MB said, generally I feel so gross during the heaviest day of AF that I don't want Jay to even look at me, god forbid I feel sexy! Although, my libido is always at a peak the 3rd and 4th days of my period, weird.
I can't bring myself to do it. I think H is ok with skipping that.
It's been a month because I was nervous after we got the positive about misscarrage and now I'm disgusting with nausea and a stomach bug. The nausea let up at 8 weeks with Alex so I'm hoping for the same this time even though I know they say they're never the same. In three days I've only kept down a small salad, cheerios, saltines and six plain cheese ravilolis all of which was throughout the day yesterday.
As fo AF sexy time, we've done it towards the end when it's not bad and we've done it a few times during in the shower so clean up wasnt an issue. It's honestly some pretty great sex because I think i want it more because I "can't" have it.
We're on like a once a week kick. It's awful. I think we've just been so stressed out with stuff that we both adapted this "hey, why bother!" feeling about it.
AF ST - sometimes at the very end, but usually we skip it altogether.
It would be kinda rude not to answer my own question. We do it, but toward the end. It doesn't bother either of us, at least once I make it through the first 2 or 3 days.
This is us too. At the very beginning or end, when it's light, we don't mind it. But we skip the heavy flow days.
We haven't since Sunday. Eeek poor kev. Nate was sick Monday and that grew us for a loop with getting him meds etc. then tues he woke up every hour so that was out. AF showed up Wed and is just dying down. We prob will tonight bc tomorrow will absolutely be out of the equation. I will be a zbie with the song "Fever" stuck in my head. Ack!
AFST- we also do it at the end if the situation arises. We put a towel down just in case.
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