Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Hello indifference!!
DS spends every Friday night with XH and last night when I dropped him off there was a car in the driveway I'd not seen before. He just got home and told me that "J, who works with XH was there and they cooked out". J is the women my XH had been having an affair with throughout our marriage. I knew this day was going to come eventually and I was dreading it, but when he told me I felt nothing. Not one single thing! I'm finally indifferent and it's awesome!! Thank goodness for good counseling and a lot of time!
Sorry to post and run, but I'm heading out for St. Patrick's day debauchery!
Re: Hello indifference!!
Isn't that the BEST feeling ever?! I had the same kind of thing when XH had the OW drive him and DS home after a Christmas party two years ago. It was 3 months after we separated and right before I filed for divorce. It was then, when she was physcially sitting in my driveway and had been with my DS, that I knew I honestly could care less.
Enjoy the feeling!!! It's the best!
Yay, it sounds like you're doing really well.
Hope you had fun last night!
Thanks ladies!! I'm so glad to be in this place! (It's so much better than where I was a year ago!)
Last night was awesome and there was much celebrating!! Gotta love great friends and green beer!