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Dating a guy that is a virgin

My sister's story:

Hi, so I just started dating this one guy. I really like him, but I found out he was a virgin. He has had other girlfriend's though, just nothing too serious I guess.

I am not a virgin, I have been with a few guys, and I was only with a virgin when I was a virgin too. Everyone I have been with has been good in bed and knows how to make me orgasm and stuff. I am scared that this guy may suck? I dated a guy once who sucked at kissing, and I tried to teach him, but he just didn't get it. So I am worried that I cannot teach this guy.
How would you feel about being with a virgin guy if you weren't a virgin? All my friends say that is super awkward.

 

Re: Dating a guy that is a virgin

  • I found a 1st person type article on this sensitive subject and I think I might help you.   It'sa nice little chuckle, but brings up some valid issues.  Being someone's first is a lot of pressure.  Make sure you both have open communication.  Do think about how important this is to the "newbie" ahead of personal pleasure.  If he's someone you want in your life long term he'll improve if you tell him what works for you in a caring way.  If things go well you might be his ONLY, which is a very special and unusal thing to have between you.  Good luck!

    Ashlynn Monroe Live~Laugh~Love http://ashlynnmonroe.com
  • Did we just get double-teamed spammed?
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  • I guess we're not virgins anymore.
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  • Eiffel Tower spammed?

    Chinese Finger Cuffs spammed?

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  • I'm of the opinion that no matter what experience the guy has had before, you're still going to have to show him what you like.  Knowing what his last girlfriend liked isn't much help.
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