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Really, jasminelorraine20? We were actually siding with you and no one said anything rude. What gives?
Re: Well, that was a lame DD
*cough* *cough* What, this one? *cough* *cough*
Trust Issues
That depends. What was the text?
If it was something inappropriate, then you need to talk to him about the contact and the content. If it was something platonic and you deleted the contact info over it, then yes, you're over reacting.
The context of the communication has a lot to do with whether or not you over reacted.
What did you think erasing her # would do?
Do you honestly think he mentioned EVERY single friend he has had in the past to you? Friend could be x girlfriend couldn't it?
How old are you guys?
Sounds like HE initiated the texts...did you ask why he deleted?
You will need to wait, pay very close attention and keep an eye open to see if this is anything or not.
Right now, I'm leaning towards you overreacting.
The fact that he is deleting some of the conversation make me think I maybe wrong. Does he normally delete parts of conversations, or only to this girl?
Aside from the fear of my weaponry prowess, I also do martial arts. MOST people are afraid of me. - pitbull9
I know I am don't post here, but seriously, him deleting messages from all girls is weird to me. What does it matter if he texts girls if there is nothing going on? If he deletes messages that means he would like to hide something. Not necessarily cheating, but I feel that deleting messages is meant to hide something.
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Generally I would think you're psycho and overreacting by going through his phone and responding to people. But if he deletes all texts from all other women then I'd be suspicious and imagine there probably is something to be jealous about.
Me too. I lol'd at my desk.
Oh, FFS.
That was my first reaction too. But it sounds like her gut was telling her something.
I had an ex that sounds oddly similar to your current BF. I dropped his ass on the curb like a hot potato. Dood was dirtier than a truck-stop bathroom.
Aside from the fear of my weaponry prowess, I also do martial arts. MOST people are afraid of me. - pitbull9
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And whiny.