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Remember Lynndie England?
Lynndie England, the 29-year-old former U.S. Army Reserve prison guard who was convicted of abusing detainees in the 2004 Abu Ghraib scandal, said in an interview Monday she doesn't feel sorry for the Iraqi prisoners she was accused of abusing. But, the former Army Reservist who served almost two years in a military prison said she has lost sleep over whether the uproar concerning the released Abu Ghraib abuse photos cost the lives of fellow American troops.
"I think about it all the time?indirect deaths that were my fault," England told the Daily's M.L. Nestel in an interview Monday from her hometown of Fort Ashby, West Virginia. "Losing people on our side because of me coming out on a picture."
England makes no apologies, however, to the Iraqis she and ten other U.S. soldiers were accused of abusing at the prison.
Photographs of England smiling with a "thumbs up" gesture in front of a pyramid of naked Iraqi detainees and pulling an Iraqi man by a leash caused international outrage and came to symbolize the ill-fated 2003 U.S. invasion as Iraq plunged into bloody insurgency in 2004. "They weren't innocent," England told Nestel of the Iraqi prisoners. "They're trying to kill us, and you want me to apologize to them? It's like saying sorry to the enemy."
"They got the better end of the deal," she said.
Three years ago, in an interview with the Guardian, England stressed how well she related to the Iraqis when she was first overseas. "We'd go to the ice-cream shop, we'd hang out there with the locals, learn about their customs, and they were interested in ours," she said to Emma Brooks of the Guardian. "A lot of the stuff was really cool."
At Abu Gharaib, she wasn't supposed to be hanging around the cellblocks given the administrative nature of her job, but once she started paling around with Graner she did just that. "When we first got there, we were like, what's going on?" she said, according to the Guardian. "Then you see staff sergeants walking around not saying anything [about the abuse]. You think, OK, obviously it's normal."
Convicted in 2005 of "conspiracy, maltreating detainees and committing an indecent act," England served "521 days in a military prison," the Daily reported. She was dishonorably discharged from the military last year.
Now 29, England is "virtually unemployable" and living in her parents rural West Virginia home where she is raising her 7-year-old son on her own, the Daily report said. The child's father, accused Abu Ghraib ringleader Charles Graner, "didn't want anything to do with the baby," England told Nestel, despite, she said, a 2009 paternity test proving the child is his.
Noting her applications to McDonalds and Burger King have been rejected, England surmised: "It's the felony they can't get past."
She also, unsurprisingly, is finding it hard to date, telling Nestel: "It's gone on eight years now since I left Iraq, since I've really been out with a guy."
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Re: Remember Lynndie England?
I'm all for people getting second chances but you need to feel regret or remorse for your actions.
I can't get past how she thinks to this day that it's "no big deal" to stack naked men into a pyramid or drag one around by a leash.
I don't remember if England was one of them, but some female Soldiers at Abu Ghraib smeared menstrual blood on detainees. That's effing sick. Yes, some/many of the detainees were the enemy, but she and anyone who would participate in that type of behavior is just as much an enemy to our country.
Did any of you click on the link? There's a current photo of her. I can think of five reasons off the top of my head why she has trouble dating.
Eh she's not terrible...but she should probably take this picture off her Match.com profile.
Click me, click me!