Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
One small victory
STBX finally agreed to discuss dissolution terms. After a LOT of mind games, avoidance, and pleas for me to "walk alongside" him in his battle with infidelity/porn addiction/whatever the hell else is wrong with him, I basically told him off and threatened to file a divorce complaint which would make things a whole lot worse for him. After a bunch of random mumbo jumbo about how he thinks its important for him to tell me he doesnt want to get a divorce and continue to fight to save things, he finally agreed to be reasonable and discuss property division. Next step- getting him to follow through with picking up his crap and agreeing to financial stuff.
Re: One small victory
I'm glad things are progressing, but why aren't you doing this through a lawyer? Unless things are in writing and signed (and maybe not even then), these concessions he's making may not be valid down the line.
If you're going to divorce him anyway, why not just file now and have a lawyer help you fight him on this stuff?