Trouble in Paradise
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"LOL Men *smh*" from TB
Re: "LOL Men *smh*" from TB
Here, its a two-fer.
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64530463.aspx
"All you have to do is sit on your ass and feed the baby."
"My only friends are my parents and my husband."
Hooooo-boy.
Is it wrong that I'm judging the people that let her watch their kids?
There is so much wrong with that post. WTF didn't she tell him to make his own damn lunch & if he didn't, throw it out?!? He sounds like a total @ss, but she seems to have some martyr-ish tendencies going on too.
Did you catch the part where he told her that if she didn't help him with his homework she owes him rent?!?
Yeah, but he sent her a text that he's sorry, so it's all good.
I pointed out to her that she says he's not normally this bad, but then says he thinks she's his slave. I'd divorce his @ss so fast he'd have whiplash.
I know it's been asked a thousand times, but why are so many women putting up with man-children and blowing it off with the 'men!' excuse? I also love the excuse that he works more or makes more, therefore is entitled to be a total lazy dbag, expect to be waited on hand and foot or ignore all childrearing responsibilities. I have said it before, but my H works 50-60 hrs a week plus full time college, and he still manages to pick up after himself, change diapers, do dishes, laundry, and cook some wicked good meals, just to name a few things. He would never expect me to make his lunches for him, thanks me regularly for things I do around the house in my free time or do for him, and would never watch me having a lousy day like that OP was and ignore it. He would also never, ever bring up the fact he makes more than me or pays more bills than I do. But then again, I didn't marry a total dbag man-child.
Actually, she is paying rent, indirectly. Since he's married to her, he gets a housing allowance. He may be entitled to one without her, but it's a much larger amount if he's got a dependent to claim.
That aside, he's obviously a dlck. If I were her, I'd suddenly lose my typing/proofreading skills.
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OMG please go into that thread and suggest this to the OP.
Me too. Three three year olds, a six month old, soon to be newborn, dogs, a doucher husband and a single pregnant caretaker making grilled cheese does not sound like an ideal environment. Oh just go play outside while I shut myself in a room and cry. No biggie!
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