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OMG you guys
How did you know that I like white wine better than red?
I've had a turbulent last couple days. Thursday night after class I annihilated the remaining half of the bottle of wine that had been in my fridge since October. My first alcohol at all since, well, October. It was great until I almost threw up and went to bed early. Friday I had my first post-natal checkup where we had the pathology report read to us (no genetics results yet) and I'm still mostly in limbo as to what really caused my loss.
Today is a work day for DH. He'd said that it would be a half day and that he'd come home and take me to Boston to shop for computer parts. Didn't happen. 
So I was feeling kind of glum and not sure what to do with my afternoon.
Then I opened my door to go check the mail and there's this big old package sitting on the landing. You guys had me smiling and crying at the same time. And have I mentioned that my lovely Nesties have such a way with words? Every single quote in my special jar was entirely what I needed to hear. I can't even deal with the webpages and books that have stories and poems about loss and stillbirth. They all just seem trite and somehow beneath what my little one deserves. But you guys know all the right things to say.
Thanks so much for everything!
Re: OMG you guys
Missed M/C 11/5/2010 @ 5 weeks, 3 days* D&C 12/3/2010 at 9 weeks, 3 days
Glad you're having a better day!