Starting Over
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Someone please knock some sense into me?
I think I may be falling into serious like with D. And this was only date #3. 
I mean, we've talked every day for the last month or so, and we're apparently uber compatible (we're even good at disagreeing - it's kind of creepy, actually...), but still!
Whatever happened to my "I'll take it slow this time" mentality? 
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Re: Someone please knock some sense into me?
Oh, man. I'm just starting dating, but I can totally see myself having trouble with the whole taking it slow thing.
I think what I'm going to focus on is just making sure that I'm still taking time to do my things- kickball, nurturing my friendships, spending time with my family.
I don't have any advice, but thought I would say you aren't the only one!! I'm in pretty much the exact same situation.
I don't know if it will help, but, I'm trying to tell myself to enjoy it for what it is whether it works out or not. One of my biggest goals since leaving XH has been living in the moment and enjoying life. I've always been the person sitting around planning for the future, meanwhile missing out on life that is happening every day.
Of course this doesn't stop my mind from thinking about jumping all the way in, being married and living happily ever after. I'm just trying really hard to keep that side buried so he doesn't see that irrational side of me (yet haha).
Tea Time for Lulu