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I'm married.....

But I am in love with another man.My husband and I just don't have that spark anymore. This other man, let's call him Jim, makes my heart melt, gives me butterflies, I can't get him off my mind. I am so in love with this man. What do I do?

Re: I'm married.....

  • TSDTSD member
    Well, you can get a divorce. Or you can work on your marriage. Seems like common sense.
  • imageTSD:
    Well, you can get a divorce. Or you can work on your marriage. Seems like common sense.

    Lol, right? Pick a guy, and go for it.  

  • It is pretty hard to give having a 'spark' with your husband a fair chance while you are 'in love'/obsessing over another man. If you don't want to be with your husband anymore, then have the decency to tell him instead of keeping him there in case your new soul mate doesn't work out. At least give your husband the chance to decide if the marriage is worth it for him to work out at this point.
  • Sparks do not last forever.  Think carefully about how this man will stack up against your husband when the spark is gone.  Because it will be gone.  If after the spark is gone, you still think this guy is the better match for you, you should consider telling your husband so he can get on with his life. 
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