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Oh TB, its always something with you...

http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64593031.aspx

Doucher is going to a bachelor party while wife is 35 weeks against her wishes and doesn't want to wear his wedding ring cause it might get washed away in the ocean.

Fishy. And not just the ocean.

 

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  • Okay, seriously?  What in the f*ck is up with these several day long bachelor parties?
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  • My dad lost his wedding ring in the ocean when my parents were first married. So it does happen.

    Personally, it wouldn't bother me for DH to not wear his ring if he has a valid reason. I think the beach is a valid reason. I never wear my rings to the beach, probably because of my parent's story.

    I also don't think that DH would leave me if I were 35 weeks pregnant.

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  • Who cares about the ring (although her H sounds sketchy for bringing that up). What gives with these husbands not being able to say no to these trips?
  • Is he going to be in the ocean the ENTIRE time?!  Um. No. 

    And I'm w/ kuus- I don't get these day long parties either.

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  • Unless his wedding ring is channel set diamonds, I'm a little confused as to why he's so terrified of losing his ring. Sounds more like she knows her H is a skank and a half and knows he'd like to appear single.

    And yes, days long bachelor parties are ridiculous.



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  • I think he wants to appear single, and act the fool.

    I agree that these week long bachelor trips are ridiculous. What happened to one night of binge drinking and strippers?

    If it were me I would be more pissed that he knows it bothers me (though she did not say that she verbally expressed her discomfort with him leaving it there) and wants to do it anyway.
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  • My DH lost his ring years ago and hasn't worn one since. We were both so upset about the loss, we didn't want to replace it. We have been talking about it, but it is pretty expensive to replace. Oh well....
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  • I don't understand these multiple day bachelor/ette parties either. I think it is weird and expensive when you are spending money on a wedding. Plus your friends have to take off work for it and shell out all this money.

     I do see where the guy doesn't want to take his ring on the beach though. Neither of us did when we were on the honeymoon. But we locked them in the safe. I think if H was going on a weekend like this, he would probably just lock it in his room or truck or something. But then again his was $65 from Overstock anyway.

     

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  • I don't know, maybe it's just me but I'm not going for DH attending any overnight bachelor party. I trust him 2000%, but I don't think it's necessary. Go to a bachelor party, come home in the wee hours of the morning no problem. Beyond that, I have an issue. He'd also not go for me doing it and that's ok by me. But this dude with his excuse for not wearing his ring? He needs the burning bed. Period. Lol
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  • It always seems like there is a story like this on the bump some where.
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  • All of the stupid-laden Bump posts don't deserve their own threads so I'm adding this one here.

    JFC this makes me want to get pregnant and ride a dirt bike without a helmet through shark infested waters while eating cold cuts just to spite these crazies.

    http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64596162.aspx

     

    WHY ARE BUMP PEOPLE SO INSANE?!?!

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