Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Explanation of gap in employment
I'm just full of questions today. Our mortgage person got our loan back from the underwriter today and it was almost completely clean. The only thing they want (for now, I'm assuming more could come later) is a letter explaining my gap in employment from Sep. 2010 to Jan. 2011.
There are two letters I could write. The first is simple and goes something like this:
"I resigned from my job in NYC in Sep to move to Princeton to live with H. I worked at temporary positions until Jan 1, when began my current job. If you have questions about the stability employment, feel free to contact supervisor at phone number."
The second letter is more detailed/gory:
"When I moved to Princeton from NYC to live with H, I began looking for a job closer to the area. I found one at (organization) and resigned from my position in NYC and began work there the following Monday. One week into the position I realized that it was not what had been described to be and there were serious management issues. I remained at the job but began looking for another because I was uncertain about the state of the organization. I was laid off from that organization in late October 2010. They day I was laid off I received a call from current employer and began work there on Jan 1. If you have questions about the stability employment, feel free to contact supervisor at phone number."
I'm loved at my current job and have lots of security there. Technically, both letters are true but the second one is definitely more indicative of the full picture. I don't want them to think that I would just flippantly leave a job in this economy, but I'm not sure if it looks worse that I was let go.
Anyone care to weigh in here?
Re: Explanation of gap in employment
Having had a career in lending before becoming a SAHM, I'd go with the more detailed option. Banks like full pictures of facts. Lenders are fact/info people. Underwriters are even more that way.
I would list the various positions with their dates. Next to each line item I would write your description of what occured. Just keep it fact-based. Including the full name of the employer and phone number is good too. Keep your emotions out of it.
Re: the lay-off, you can highlight the "state of the organization' point. It's not due to poor performance or negligence on your part, so it shouldn't be a problem.
My mortgage person had me just scribble out a quick letter right while we were working through the paperwork. I think mine just said "My husband accepted a job in <current state>, so I resigned from my job in <Previous state> to move with him. Once here, I searched for a job but it took seven months until I found employment with <current company>."
I spoke to our mortgage broker and he said to go with the short version as well. Apparently it was just a formality.
Thanks everyone!
On Tuesday, the Internet was abuzz with admirers pointing to Billups? abrasion as addition archetype of the ?Clippers Curse.?
One problem. There is no Clippers Curse. What believers accede a anathema the blow of the apple considers a alternation of bad administration decisions.Cheap Nike Shoes Oh sure, there are times if players accept been injured: Blake Griffin absent his aboriginal division because of a knee injury. Danny Manning, the Clippers? top aces in 1988, blew out his knee in his amateur season. The aggregation traded two first-round picks for Tiny Archibald in 1977; one ages into the season, he tore his Achilles? bond and absent the absolute season. Bill Walton had a alternation of bottom injuries during his seasons with the team.
Some alarm that a curse, but added teams alarm it a day in the activity of an NBA team.
Ask Lakers admirers about James Worthy breaking his leg just afore the alpha of the 1983 NBA playoffs, apparently costing the Lakers an NBA title.Jordan shoes Or ask them about Byron Scott and Magic Johnson both adversity broken hamstrings during the 1989 NBA Finals, with Scott affliction his afore Bold 1 and Johnson during Bold 2. The Lakers were swept in that series. Cheap Jordan Shoes Or Mnike womens soccer cleats custom nike soccer shoes indoor soccer shoes for kids nike nike nadal tennis shoes lightest nike running shoe buy nike air diamond turf cheap nike air max lebron vii cheap nike high dunks cheap nike air
nike soccer shoes for women best nike running shoes for men girls nike soccer cleats nike make your own soccer shoes green nike tennis shoes buy custom nike dunks nike free run barefoot cheap nike shoes for kids cheap nike air max
nike soccer cleats for cheap nike outlet woodburn buy nike shoes online cheap nike girls tennis clothing finish line nike free run boys nike air max 2009 nike free run flint platinum retro-stealth cheap nike shox for women nike coupon
nike soccer cleats cheap nike outlet legends buy nike dunks online nike free 7.0 review design your own nike basketball shoes boys black nike shox nike free run ipod cheap nike shox women nike outlet coupons
agic backward afterwards testing absolute for HIV. Does anyone say the Lakers are cursed? No, because the Lakers admiral accept a history of authoritative astute abstract picks and trades, abrogation the aggregation in position to balance bound from setbacks.
Look at the Clippers? abstract history: In 1981, they drafted Tom Chambers, who went on to accept a solid career ? with Seattle and Phoenix. Afterwards he averaged 17.4 credibility for the Clippers, they traded him to the SuperSonics for James Donaldson, Greg Kelser and Mark Radford. To be fair, the Clippers did abstract a approaching Hall of Famer in 1981: Tony Gwynn, who is in the Baseball Hall of Fame. In 1983, the Clippers called Byron Scott, again traded him to the Lakers. In 1984, they called Lancaster Gordon with the eighth all-embracing aces of the draft. Lancaster Gordon? Nike jordans shoes sales Meanwhile, eight picks later, the Utah Jazz called John Stockton. In 1985, with the third aces in the abstract and with Chris Mullin, Detlef Schrempf, Charles Oakley, Karl Malone and Joe Dumars all available, the Clippers selected, delay for it, Benoit Benjamin. (By the way, that year the Lakers called A.C. Green with the 23rd pick.)
We could play the ?name the bad abstract pick? bold all day. In 1987, the Clippers had three first-round picks. They went with Reggie Williams, Joe Wolf and Ken Norman. Remember Danny Ferry? Bo Kimble? LeRon Ellis? Randy Woods? Terry Dehere? Lamond Murray? Michael Olowokandi?
So, no, there is no Clippers Curse. There was just a alternation of abhorrent amateur cadre decisions fabricated by the team.Which seems to accept afflicted this division beneath new General Manager Neil Olshey. Who is apparently busily aggravating to ample the aperture Billups? abrasion leaves.