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Wednesday is going to be my first day staying over with D. He's leaving work a little early and I'll get to his house about the same time he does, so we'll have the evening / night together, and then he's leaving me a key (apparently I seem uber trustworthy?) and I can leave whenever on Thursday after he leaves for work.
So...the question is about what I should bring. I don't want to show up with a suitcase, or even really an overnight bag if I can help it (don't want to seem to high-maintenance). What did anyone here take their first night staying at his place?

"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
Re: Dumb question
Since this is a planned event, I think it would be very appropriate to come with an overnight bag.
I think it is important that you have what you need so you can be comfortable. If you are sacrificing your comfort out of fear how you would appear to D, then I would question why you feel that way with D.
This exactly. Bring what you need and screw what he thinks and honestly he probably won't even think a thing about it.
"You don't get to be all puke-face about your kid shooting your undead baby daddy when all you had to do was KEEP HIM IN THE FLUCKING HOUSE, LORI!" - doctorwho
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