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Stolen from ML
From where else, TB.
http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64608383.aspx
I am LOL'ing that she thinks he's only masturbated ONCE in 14 years. And I'm 
over:
1.) Her saying she would be devastated if he actually jerked it... but she hasn't sgiven him any in weeks...
2.) Her friend's husband who started jerking it next to her in bed while she cried.
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Re: Stolen from ML
But now you know what Mr "I haven't jacked it in 14 years" looks like!
Winna winna chicken dinna.
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"he decided to have a date with rosey palmer"
LOL.
I prefer the phrase, "He's throwing a hand party." I admit that's only because it was in Borat, though.
Yeah I keep seeing that picture and thinking "poor guy." Also how old are they because that sounds like a stupid rule I would have come up with when I was 14. Together for 14 years and he's only done it once would put them square into middle school - freshman year territory I would think.
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Snuggle Time?
Crying over masturbation?
Whenever I read about women that forbid things like porn and masturbation (And it floors me how often I hear about it), I seriously have to wonder "What's wrong with me?".
I really don't care if he's watching porn and jerking it. I'd rather him "fly solo" if I'm busy/not in the mood/on my period than just sit around being sexually frustrated all the time. As long as I'm not getting turned down for sex when I'm "available", wtf is the big deal?
I'm more than willing to start validating people's ideas when they start having ideas worth validating
She should leave him alone and let him jerk it. Good lord.
Also, not every touch in the world has to lead to intercourse. He could give her a backrub or a footrub-- I told my husband during pregnancy that I would blow him religiously if he would just rub my back/feet every night until delivery. It was wonderful for both of us.
We've finally got back in the groove over the last couple of months and its nice to stress relieve. Even if I don't think i want it, I get with it, and have a great time. It boosts my mood and helps me sleep.
This lady needs to work through her guilt.
a) the only reason he's being so understanding/not pushing her to have sex is because he's secretly jerking off.
b) if she feels that damn guilty about the whole thing why not just give in once in a while? There have been plenty of times where I wasn't 100% in the mood but I went along with it and got in the mood pretty quick.
Also, "And he knows that it would just crush me if he pleasured himself " and "If he is and I don't know about it, then what I don't know doesn't hurt me" don't seem to fit together... unless he's planning on announcing it or doing it in front of her, the first statement would never be an issue. Unless of course she's lying in the second statement...