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What do u do after a fight?
Hi everyone. What do you do after a fight with your DH or so? Since being married, not being able to tell him to leave when I'm mad has been really hard. So instead I do something else that is probably immature and emotionally unhealthy... What do you do?
Me 33. DH 32. TTC Since 6/2011.
12/2012-m/c, CP.
DH: MFI. CCT/HSG/day 3 blood work-all nl.
IVF#1 ER- 8/7/12, ET- 8/10. beta 8/25 neg, I did not respond as expected. AMH: 0.88.
IVF#2 BCP-10/19. Micro flare Lupron-Nov: It's a bust.
IVF#3 Planned for Feb '13 with a long lupron protocol
ON OUR OWN!!! BFP- 1/12/13. Yay! EDD 9/18, now EDD 9/25
Re: What do u do after a fight?
Are you serious???
We have never fought, sorry.
Maybe you all should seek counseling?
H is the one who needs space. He goes into the bedroom and I leave him alone. He doesn't have to leave the house for you to have space.
She's a troll from the bump.
Well, that's because you can't fight with a person that only exists in your mind.
we just tell each other we need space and go to different rooms. Then we discuss it later or the next day when we're calm and have some perspective.
I'd love to know how you deal with fighting though, please share.
I'm so glad you post over here sometimes. LOL.
Me too. I heart SMACE.
LOL
Thanks for the laugh gals.
Yeah, all I do is leave to the bedroom. I ignore him for a little too long. He'll apologize the next day and we'll talk it out. I feel pretty normal now.
No, we didn't live together before getting married and we've been married less than one year.