Starting Over
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

I need to vent...

but can't.  I have had a series of horrible emails sent to my boyfriend and a friend detailing my past and stating what a terrible person I am.  But, I can't vent because I have a feeling they are stalking me on the interwebz.  I also believe they hacked into my FB because in the initial email, they named people by first and last and the only way they could have gotten that information was through my FB.   

I am disgusted and angry.  I am angry that they violated my privacy as well as the privacy of my BF and friend by sending them emails.  I don't deserve this stress in my life.  And mind you, my exh and I have been seperated since Sept 2010.  I just want to sit down and cry.  Just make the drama stop!  I'm 32 years old for chrissakes!    

Re: I need to vent...

  • This sucks.  I'm assuming you changed all of your passwords, just to be safe?

    I never understand why people get so vindictive.  I hope your boyfriend and your friend are taking it all with a grain of salt.

    Any idea could the culprit could be?

    So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.

  • Yep, all my PW have been changed.  And yes, I have a VERY good idea who it is and if I am correct in my assumptions, she actually has no connection to the situation between my exh and I except that she is a friend of his and the OW (and was a former friend of mine) and they all work together.  And again, if it is the person that I think it is, she is known to continually stir the pot.  It has been repeatedly stated that I have been talking crap on my exh girlfriend, which I haven't.  If they (exh/girlfriend) are happy together then what do I care?  I'm in a much better place in my life and I'm so happy right now.  Which is another reason that I don't want or need the drama.  Like I said, I'm not in HS anymore.   
  • Make sure you change your security questions too. I had someone hack into an email once, it was an ex-friend, and they way they got in was because they knew the answers to my questions.

    HS follows you wherever you go unfortunately. Recently I've been back at middle school. It wasn't fun the first time either!

  • I am sorry you are going through all of this.  Hang in there and take the high road. People are be so ridiculous sometimes.  
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