Starting Over
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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I'm just not feelin him.

I was kind of hoping it was one of those things where I just needed to get more comfortable to feel the spark but after 3 dates I think I'm just not attracted to him. He's a cool guy and we have a ton in common and I like hanging out with him, but I think all we will ever be is friends. I'm kinda bummed, but oh well!
Re: Date update
I have not yet suddenly been attracted to someone who I wasn't initially attracted to.
I agree with this. I find if there isn't a spark on the first date, it usually doesn't develop
I actually thought there was on the first date, I think it was because I was horny and drank too much beer though. The second two dates I made sure I didn't have those factors and yeah, spark was gone! Oh well.