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Anyone have flirting tips?

There's a cute guy on my kickball team who's single.  He missed the first few games, so last week was the first time I met him.

Please remember, I haven't been single since I was 16.  I'm really not sure what I'm doing, lol.

The day I left was just my beginning.

Re: Anyone have flirting tips?

  • Just talk to him. If you are friendly (smiling, good eye contact) I think he will get the picture.
    2011 Races
    3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
    5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
    5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
    5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
    7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
    10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
  • imagerakattack:

    There's a cute guy on my kickball team who's single.  He missed the first few games, so last week was the first time I met him.

    Please remember, I haven't been single since I was 16.  I'm really not sure what I'm doing, lol.

    When I see a hot guy in the grocery store I usually run and hide.  Yea, don't do that.

  • I agree with Dmarie!  Can you find a way to strike up a little conversation with him?
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  • image+Black Kitty+:

    When I see a hot guy in the grocery store I usually run and hide.  Yea, don't do that.

     

    BWA HA HA HA! I heart you, BK!

    image
    They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
  • imageRiver Pestie:
    image+Black Kitty+:

    When I see a hot guy in the grocery store I usually run and hide.  Yea, don't do that.

     

    BWA HA HA HA! I heart you, BK!

    lol!

    I'm good at talking and smiling, especially with a few beers in me.

    The day I left was just my beginning.
  • imageRiver Pestie:
    image+Black Kitty+:

    When I see a hot guy in the grocery store I usually run and hide.  Yea, don't do that.

     

    BWA HA HA HA! I heart you, BK!

    True story!

  • Also, SOME (not a ton) but of touching (lightly touching his arm, etc) can go a long way. Just don't go overboard lol.
    2011 Races
    3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
    5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
    5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
    5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
    7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
    10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
  • WahooWahoo member
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    If he makes a nice play, tell him!  "Nice play!" "great kick!"  (or whatever you say at a kickball game).

    Does the team hang out for drinks afterwards?  Chat him up then.

    A smile goes a long way - - I truly believe that more important than being a knockout is being approachable. 

    Other than that, just be friendly like he is a new neighbor - - if this is a company league, ask him what dept he works in, if it is a bar league ask him where he works, etc.

     

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    imageRiver Pestie:
    image+Black Kitty+:

    When I see a hot guy in the grocery store I usually run and hide.  Yea, don't do that.

     

    BWA HA HA HA! I heart you, BK!

    True story!

    This is me too. I've got absolutely zero game. And the more I crush on a guy, the more shy I become. Alcohol sometimes helps a Iittle.  

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  • Make eye contact and smile. Works for me. Big Smile
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