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I need support !!

I having been applying all the jobs since I graduated last December, but no luck though.  I just stay in my in-laws's house for the whole day coz hubby and I still living with my in-laws until early March which is our new house's closing date. I can't wait !

I feel like waiting my hubby home is my climax of the day :(

I feel I am kind of wasting oxygen and food..... I become social isolated now. I don't want to bother my friends, church mates so I just read more bible and keep looking job everywhere. But I still feel very bored. Such a torture....   

Re: I need support !!

  • 1.  If you have so much time, practice your editing because that was barely readable. 

    2.  If you are withdrawing, you might consider seeing a therapist as that is a sign of depression. You need to maintain healthy friendships.

     

  • imagemanling514:

    I feel like waiting my hubby home is my climax of the day :(

    I feel I am kind of wasting oxygen and food..... I become social isolated now.

    But I still feel very bored. Such a torture....   

    You need goals.

    Boredom is what happens to people who don't have a goal to work toward.

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  • Try local community opportunities or volunteering. Big Brothers and Big Sisters of America often needs mentors from 3:00-5:00 pm. I've heard that animal shelters like people to come in and walk dogs (never done this personally). Ask your church if there's anything you can do to help during the day (I'm assuming you go to church based on the Bible comment). Check out Idealist.com for other volunteer opportunities.

    You could also try going to local job fairs. Depending on what you're looking for, they may have good opportunities for you.

    Finally, I agree with the previous posters. Work on your editing skills. Even if you're looking for a job unrelated to writing, a lack of writing skills will hurt your application. Look up sample resume and cover letters and make sure yours are just as good.    

  • It's hard to wake up and not have a schedule.  My suggestions are to look for ways to volunteer within your field, get a part-time job (retail, food, etc), set goals, and create a daily routine for yourself.  Since you are staying w/IL, could you help out by cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, etc?
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  • I think your feelings are a very normal reaction to what you're going through. We look at our jobs as meaning in our lives and help us feel productive and contributing. I agree with other posters that community activities, volunteering, or therapy would be helpful for you. 

     It seems you are stuck in some negative thinking patterns because of where you are and you need to get yourself out of that by creating meaning for yourself. i.e. "I don't want to bother my friends" ? How would you be "bothering" them? They are your friends and they can be there for you in this time. 

     I hope you do find some employment soon but until then try a new hobby, volunteer, keep yourself busy and feeling good about yourself! 

  • Keeping yourself busy will be the best option for you at this point of time else you will feel depressed which might attract several illnesses later. Keep yourself as busy as possible in helping cooking, grocery shopping or cleaning if you are not good on these go for searching a part time job and research in your field.
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