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Very frustrated and need some reassurance
Hey Ladies,
I was hoping that I would be posting an "I'm officially divorced" post but that is not the case. We went to court and the judge wouldn't sign off on the decree. I understand why he didn't approve of the parenting plan yet because I am in school and once I get a job my hours will change. I don't know where I will be working or what I will make or what hours I will be working. I graduate in mid May and I hope to have a job lined up by then but you never know. I am just very disapointed that the judge wouldn't even grant the divorce because I feel like the two issues are seperate. And my ex is worried that they will make him pay child support since I make nothing right now and he has a job. We had to schedule another hearing for late June so hopefully by then everything will be worked out. I am just very frusterated because I thought at least my marriage would be officially dissolved and I could begin to move on. What now?!?!?!?!
Re: Very frustrated and need some reassurance
I am sorry it didn't go the way you wanted.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
Ditto RP, I'm sorry it didnt go the way you wanted STL. But if there's one thing I learned from this process, it's that this whole thing isn't going to be the way you wanted. Hell, this divorce isnt what I wanted in the first place. You're pretty much just along for the ride, and once it's over you can breathe a sigh of relief. ((hugs))
dup.
I'm sorry things didn't go the way you wanted, but based on the above statement, I can see why the judge is concerned. Why isn't your STBXH paying child support?