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did you shop around for loans?

The bank we have been working with up to this point has us set up with a 7/30 loan (7 years, interest stays the same, then refi or accept what market is at that time). DH wants us to get a 30 yr fixed loan and I really don't understand why so he is shopping around. We have time before our loan deadline next week. The reason I want to stick with the 7/30 is bc they are offering almost $8000 in downpymt assistance. If we go with a 30 yr fixed we won't get that. WWYD? Thoughts?

Re: did you shop around for loans?

  • BTW we have 15% to put down and NEED the downpymt assistance because we don't qualify for a PMI.
  • If you need the down payment assistance then it doesn't sound like you have a choice. We didn't shop around that much, but we knew that the company we were going with offered the most competitive rates of anyone we had looked at.
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    If you need the down payment assistance then it doesn't sound like you have a choice. We didn't shop around that much, but we knew that the company we were going with offered the most competitive rates of anyone we had looked at.

    We really don't. I think DH just needs the peace of mind.

  • I shopped fees only because we were doing 30 year conventional with 20% down. After meeting with one lender I called and asked for fees from a few others. The lender we met with first was the cheapest and we liked him.
  • Each time I bought a property, I would call a few mortgage brokers and several banks.  I saved a decent amount in costs and found better rates shopping.
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  • The only reason we didn't shop around for mortgages is because with our credit union, they have a 1st time buyers program where they pay all closing costs and we locked in the rate of 3.5% for a 30 yr fixed....I don't think we would have found better then that
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  • Our mortgage broker shopped for our rate for us.  I personally would be very afraid of a mortgage that will fluctuate in 7 years.  

    I would call a broker personally and try to get a better mortgage.  We were able to get a 5% down no pmi loan and our sellers are doing a credit for closing costs.  Would you be able to lock in a 30-yr fixed and have sellers cover closing? 

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    Unless you know that you?re moving in 7 years, I would get a fixed rate mortgage. Rates are historically low, and the likelihood of a refi being as good or better is probably slim.   It seems like compromising a good long-term interest rate for down payment assistance is penny wise and pound foolish.

    We shopped around for mortgages and two brokers got into a bidding war over us. We ended up going with the guy who dropped his loan origination fee and the appraisal fee, but offered the same rate as the other guy.

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    Our mortgage broker shopped for our rate for us.  I personally would be very afraid of a mortgage that will fluctuate in 7 years.  

    I would call a broker personally and try to get a better mortgage.  We were able to get a 5% down no pmi loan and our sellers are doing a credit for closing costs.  Would you be able to lock in a 30-yr fixed and have sellers cover closing? 

    This exactly. The economy is crazy. One thing affects another. For all we know, the USA could be at war in another county in 7 years...or the student loan bubble could burst, like I've been reading...I guess the list of "what-ifs" could go on forever, but I do know, having worked as a loan pfficer, that lots of people got into trouble with ARMs (adjustable rate mortgages) several years ago. Also, you have to consider your personal lives too. What if one of you gets sick or you have a bigger family or you lose a job and you could have locked in a rate now around 4%, but in 7 years the rates are 1-2% higher? Might that hurt you?

    IMO, it never hurts to be financially conservative and cautious, with loans/debt, in these types of times. I'm agreeing with your husband.

  • We didnt shop around....but our morgage broker did. Best piece of advice we were given and would give, get a good morgage broker who really understands your lifestyle and not just what rates, but what type of morgage will work best for your lifestyle and future plans.
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