Trouble in Paradise
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I'm almost speechless at this.
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What is WRONG with people?! 4/11/2012 edition
04-10-2012 at 7:22 PM
 Chloeagh
 Joined on 12-02-2011
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I can't orgasm from sex and I'm
actually glad. It's so much better when he isn't worrying about lasting
long enough for me. I just take care of my business while we're cuddling
afterwards. |
I'm almost speechless at this.
Re: What is WRONG with people?! 4/11/2012 edition
At least she doesn't know what she is missing?
She has said before that her FI used to be super bad in bed because he watched a lot of porn and insisted that since this was the way it's done in porn, it must be the right way whether she likes it or not. This is apparently him being a way better lover.
I bet she can orgasm from sex, she's just never going to have the opportunity.
I'm assuming these two are very young. Is she his first?
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
I can't orgasm from sex either, but I find it more depressing than anything. Also, what smock said. Ladies first! I always get taken care of at least once prior to the actual sexing.
I will never understand why people are so willing to accept such lame effort from their SOs, especially when it comes to something as important as sex.
Wow.
ITA.
And just wow at the porn thing.
Click me, click me!
Thank God for my H.
Currently Reading: Don Quixote by Miguel De Cervantes
Broc, you're so right. Her response:
"I don't see what's wrong with that. I am physically incapable of orgasming from sex or anything anyone does that isn't a vibrator. I have struggled with orgasms a lot and it caused me a lot of stress and put pressure on both of us. It took a lot of time for me to come to terms with the limitations of my body. My guy is a great lover. He tries really hard to please me and sex with him FANTASTIC. I am always incredibly satisfied afterwards, even though I don't orgasm. He always encourages me to do whatever I can to orgasm, which in my case is using a vibrator. I love having sex with him and I love getting him off during sex.
I don't see what's so weird about caring about his pleasure and being happy with my body the way it is. A good lover is not defined by an orgasm every time. I am more than happy with our sex life."WTFFFFFFFFFFFF how can he be a good lover when he doesn't even try to do anything for her?? And she's just resigned to it. I guess they're well matched then. *smh*
She's not that into him.
I still want to know what he's like outside of the sheets.
Click me, click me!
I don't think it's all his fault, Broc. Something tells me that she feels just as uncomfortable mixing the two. I would be happy to be proven wrong, but I feel like she is just as much to blame in this as he is.
I'm willing to bet you are right - the exact same. This behavior can't just be happening in this area only.
Wrong!
Well she's kind of right. I can be defined by a number every time. Hint: That number is ALWAYS greater than 0.
Holly sh*t that sounds so damn good.