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Porn to watch with your man?

Hi everyone, this is my first post. I've been on the board a lot to look around, but finally want to post.

 My husband and I have never watched porn together, and recently I've been thinking a lot about trying it out together. (Neither of us have ever actually watched it) Last night I mentioned it to him and he was open to it.

 Is there anything good for couples? We're not really in to seeing hardcore raunchy absolutely ridiculous porn, maybe just some soft core porn or something, (at least to start out with) Also I'd prefer if the couples were young and attractive, we're in our early 20's, I don't really want to see 50 yr old couples doing it, no offence or anything lol.

 Are there any specific websites you would suggest, or even better, specific movies you would suggest to watch together? 

Sorry if I sound so specific. I'd like to try tonight and I'm kind of shy about it, and most porn is going to be absolutely cheesy, isn't it? I'm afraid I'm sure going to laugh at it, lol. Any suggestions would be SO awesome, thank you girls!

Re: Porn to watch with your man?

  • I would suggest going to adamandeve.com or browsing redtube.com or youporn.com for ides of what might appeal to you.
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  • You can rent movies from www.adultdvdempire.com. They have a ton, and some are categorized as "for couples'. Pirates was one of my favorites. They come pretty descretly packaged. You would have to wait a few days, but that is what my dh and I watch together, something about watching online porn together kinda weirds me out, but a movie I like better.  
  • we frequent the website xnxx dot com

    other than that try checking out stores that carry the videos. there are ALLLLL types.

    it really is fun to watch together and gives you ideas on things to try. i like pointing out things that turn me on and he LOVES that. :) have fun!

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  • Hey guys, thanks for your suggestions! I browsed some of those sites for ideas. We ended up watching Pirates... it was good for our first time together, because we knew it was supposed to be kind of funny so that didn't make me feel so silly when I laughed lol. After the 2nd sex scene I was already comfortable with it and we had a ton of fun... Pirates 2 tonight perhaps? 

  • My husband and I had a huge problem with porn. I was completely okay with watching it with him, but he kept doing it behind my back and I told him how much hurt and how it was ruining my self esteem. Fortunately, we have fixed our problem and came to an agreement. We will watch it together and there are specific things we will watch. We like the instructional stuff because while we watch, we are also getting tips. That would be my advice to you!
  • Before we watched it, we both agreed that we wouldn't watch it alone, only together, and I'm really glad we both agreed upon that. It's something we want to share together, I wouldn't like him doing it alone, and he wouldn't like me doing it alone either. But I'm glad you two worked it out. I also like instructional stuff, because you learn and it's also kinda hot ;) Like I said, I'm glad you two worked it out :)
  • If you're just starting out you should try http://bedroomchemist.com  it's a totally cute couples-focused site that sends you intimacy gift packs every month or so.  it doesn't have porn but it has "toys" and helpful suggestions.  we've loved looking forward to getting our set each month!!  
  • really? that is so cool! I am going to check that out. How much do you have to pay for it? (Well i guess i can find out when i go on the site lol)
  • I was nervous to delve into the porn realm with my hubby, but I was eager to turn up the heat a bit.  We compromised and got some soft porn (can't handle anything too crazy...yet), and then he actually bought me a subscription to bedroomchemist.com for Valentine's Day.  It has been great so far!!!
  • youporn is good site. I am not trying to sound dirty.

  • After about a year into my relationship, I ordered playboy for my man and I. Its not hardcore porn but can put you both in the mood so you can pleasure eachother "together" . I enjoy this because its something different all the time
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