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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Awkward situation
This is just some random thoughts I wanted to share since this board is so slow. How did that happen?
Someone confessed to a really good friend of mine that he really likes me and and inquired if my son and I were doing alright going through the divorce. My friend says he wanting to wait until after my divorce before he talks with me.
This guy goes to my church so I see him around a lot . The funny thing is I never had inkling or felt any vibes that he was interested in me. It almost seems like he purposely not really look at me or something, though I do catch him side glancing at me. I am not even sure if he knows that I know his feelings about me or not.
I wish my friend had not said anything...so awkward. It's like do I just pretend I don't know anything until he says something or what? At the same time, I think I would be open to giving him a chance for a date but I am just not quite ready at the moment. I rather wait until my official date has passed which isn't until the 24th of this month. Is it silly that this thought makes me nervous? I can't quite decipher what I am feeling.(Yes, this guy knows sign language 
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Re: Awkward situation
aww. yay! i'm excited for you. i agree with pp's, smile, try to talk to him more so he can know you're interested. keep us posted!
I think you ladies are right, I am nervous. I am excited to see some movement in my life that shows I am moving on and at the same time I had a mental note that it would be a long time before I go on a date or even be curious about a guy.
Just knowing that he has seen me around for some time makes me feel flattered with his expressed interest because he at least know some things about me in person. I really never paid too much attention to him before but that is because I was married and then going through a divorce and had my radar completely off. I get scared of not being accepted for who I am since my ex never did(both exes). I know I am not the same girl I was before so I have more "tools" going forward.
::putting on life jacket and helmet for this crazy ride called life::
This is very cute of him!
Definitely find a way to strike up a conversation with him and smile!
Do you know if he has kids? Maybe you can find a way to talk to him about kids (if he has them)
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
Yes, he does have a young son (maybe age 6ish). I am also finding out that he is very social and active being on a volleyball and baseball team along with playing golf. It is good to know that he has a busy life himself.
I will be attending a baseball game in San Francisco in May with several people and heard that he will also be there. I know that is still a while away but this seems to be good way to see how he is in person with his friends.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.