Last week I posted about friend who was assaulted. I have some more information and wanted to get your thoughts on a couple things.
He is being charged with 3 felonies...assault, child abuse, and intimidation I think (he threatened to kill her). The California DA office has offered to pay for her plane ticket, lodging, and guarantee her safety if she will come and testify but she is refusing (whole other issue). Now the DA is saying they will subpoena her and if she doesnt show they will put a warrant out on her that will last in CA for 3 years. My questions are:
Does it seem feasable the DA office would threaten the victim?
With the police reports and her visible bruising shouldnt they have enough to move forward on the case without her?
In your experience is it common for victims of DV to be difficult/not cooperate with the DA?
Thanks
Re: Kellbell
Sorry that is massively long. Is she doing any kind of counseling, specifically with someone who specializes in DV work? The no drop policy works well for me because I explain to people that they have no choice and I have no choice, they have to go forward. For a lot of people the anxiety or fear will keep them from testifying and they later regret it. I try and give them as much control within that situation as possible. I also explain that they need to draw a white line in the sand so he knows he cannot do that to them; that they need to set a strong example for their kids as most kids who grow up in homes with DV go onto relationships with DV; and that even if they won't be with him again that doesn't mean he won't hurt or kill someone else and I know they don't want that on their consciences. What works or makes someone feel better depends on the person.
80% of victims recant?? Wow...that is mind boggling.
I have tried to make her see the light and testify...but I dont think it is going to happen. She told DA all she wants is for him to take anger management counseling and to get back on his meds for his bipolar disorder.
Meanwhile the guy's family is calling her and saying stuff like:
"He will lose his job at the university" "He wont be able to get a hunter's license if he has a felony on his record" "It's not like he put you in intensive care" Just so ridiculous.
Thanks for the insight Kellbell. It is much appreciated.
Welcome to every day of my life, now y'all know why I am such a raging b*tch. I save my supportive "I totally understand where you're coming from"s for work and am all out by the time I get to the Nest. I would strongly encourage her to meet with a domestic violence counselor once or twice. She may decide that she doesn't want to participate and from a mental health standpoint that is 100% her decision to make, or it may put things in perspective and she may decide she'd get something out of standing up for herself. We also do closed court so very few people are allowed in (for example, his family couldn't come in just to watch).
Another thing to consider: if they are felonies there is usually a preliminary hearing and then a judgment hearing. It has been my experience that often when a victim testifies at preliminary the defendant will cave and plead guilty. They're best defense is cowing a victim into not testifying, once they realize she will testify it's not worth it to try and maintain a not guilty. Obviously none of this is legal advice but if she confides her reservations in you it may help sway her one way or the other.