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How Do You Find A Marriage Counselor?

Think my husband and I need some marriage counseling, because we've got a sex related issue that's not getting any better despite our best attempts over the past few months.  Everything else is fabulous (at least to me and based on what DH tells me). 

Alternatively, any good relationship books on sex we could read together?  I think he kind of likes it when we've done those.

Re: How Do You Find A Marriage Counselor?

  • We started with a google search for marriage counselors in our area, and I cross-referenced that with our insurance website to see who was covered under our insurance plan.

     

    Good luck! 

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  • Most employers offer an EAP (Employee Assistance Program). They helped me find one near me.
  • EAP and your insurance provider are good places to start.

    Anything you want to bounce off of us?

    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • Thanks for the EAP suggestion.  Called them, made an appt, first available in 2wks.  :(  The bigger story is over on sex & romance.  I appreciate the suggestions!
  • I'm going to put the link here if you don't mind.

    http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/65083887.aspx

     I found myself getting very angry at your H while reading that. 

    I am glad you are going to counseling because I think that he is using your (small) weight gain as an excuse. There has to be more to it.

    You do what you need to do to make yourself happy in your own skin and if he doesn't like that person, then he is not the one you should be with. 

    Please, oh please, do not let sex become a reward for working out. No, no, no.

    I think I have more to say, but I'm not sure exactly what it is right now.

    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
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