Starting Over
I?ll be honest. Crafting specific, unique messages to ladies who can?t be bothered to perform the basic courtesy of writing back is a waste of my time. After a few dozen, I've decided to quit.
So, you get a form letter where I say, ?I think you?re interesting and I would like to know more about you. Please read my profile, and then kindly observe the social contract to write me back, even if it?s only to say ?no thanks?.?
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Respond, block, then delete...
I received a lovely e-mail today. I think I've cycled through most of the "normal" guys on Match so far and I'm getting into the crazies now. Apparently this guy thinks punishing future dates for the mistakes of women who blew him off in the past is a good strategy for meeting people. I wrote back, told him his e-mail was bitter and angry, said in the future he might want to consider being more positive if he wants to get positive responses back, said no thanks, and blocked his ass.
"Hi.
I?ll be honest. Crafting specific, unique messages to ladies who can?t be bothered to perform the basic courtesy of writing back is a waste of my time. After a few dozen, I've decided to quit.
So, you get a form letter where I say, ?I think you?re interesting and I would like to know more about you. Please read my profile, and then kindly observe the social contract to write me back, even if it?s only to say ?no thanks?.?
Have a great day."
She's crafty - and she's just my type.
Re: Respond, block, then delete...
DD2 11.17.08
That's amazing and awful. Good for you.
So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.