Trouble in Paradise
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Re: lip to tip on FM
Nooo, Muddled its not only that. Its more of: I'm an independent woman, we dont need anyone but our love (except $ from his family), dont judge me, etc.
lol. Yeah, I didn't read past the OP.
What does she say? She's totally independent, but he is completely dependent on his family for money and she is fine with that? No double standards. Nope.
You are so right, PM. That one was so much better than I imagined.
I love that her primary reason for getting married now is that she doesn't want to have to plan a wedding during her senior year. lol.
I can't think of a better reason to get married now. It's all quite logical, isn't it?
I love your response, PM.
I have a feeling that'll be the next climax to the story and of course she'll turn it around on his mother. After all, the OP only works 20 hours a week so she can't possibly afford BC (even though it's probably free or low cost at the university clinic) so her BF was helping with that cost... but he can't now that he has to support himself. Pull and pray it is!
http://pandce.proboards.com/index.cgi#general
Oh yeah
this is gold:
http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_moms-maids_is-this-rude-fil
I thought she said on FM that they are paying for the wedding themselves. You know b/c she works 25 hrs/wk and has a 401k
ETA
: no, she did admit that her parents put down the deposit.
FI will realize how amazing OP is, and will cut off his family entirely for her.
Suddenly my life doesn't seem such a waste,
It all revolves around you.