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C&P - Unusual sperm donation method

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Last edited 7 hours ago My husband's best friend is a lesbian and she decided she was ready to start a family with her partner. They asked me and my husband is it would be okay if my DH would be the donor. Because they IVF is so expensive what we ( all 4 of us) did was go to a hotel room and me and DH did our thing and when he was ready at that point he emptied into her. This was April 7. Now to be honest I was not 100% comfortable with the idea of another woman carring my husbands child but I know how much this means to them and how much my husband wanted to this for is best friend. So its been a few weeks and she is started to show signs of pregnancy. I feel gulity because I am hoping that she isnt. I acted like I was okay to force myself to be okay with it but im not. I know that if she is my husband would have no role in the baby's life, He even is going to sign over his paternital right plus not sign the birth certifitate but it like I want to be only woman to every carry his child.


 

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Re: C&P - Unusual sperm donation method

  • Awkward! Have these people never heard of a turkey baster? 
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  • OMG my jaw is on my desk.  LMFAO
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    oh lordy.

    A big old middle finger to you, stupid Nest.
  • I refuse to believe this is real. Could anyone really be showing signs of pregnancy 10 days later?  I mean, pregnancy tests would barely be accurate at this point and it seems like it's been eating at her for a while.

    In other news, April 7 is my mom's bday. 

  • I love how she replied, "No it wasn't like a threesome."

    Yeah, because it was a foursome. 

  • Maybe she's uncomfortable because her husband had sex with someone else. This is amazing. I am dying over here! Crying
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  • I am just amazed at out of the 4 of them no one had a problem with this before the deed was done.
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  • imagemeshaliu:
    I want to be only woman to every carry his child.

    File under:  Things to consider before you agree to have a threesome. 

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  • imagepedantic_wench:
    WAH WAH WHAT?!!

    I think you mean

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  • I'm more bothered by the 16 year old in the comments commiserating about wanting to be the only one to carry her DFs baby..........Im not sure what to say to this other then I would never let my DF do things this way it would have to be something where he had no physically contact with the girl and have something in writing about how they do not want him for anything except the semen. I think your more unhappy at the fact that he had sex with another women then that she might be pregnant but i can sort of understand you my DF ex got pregnant(planned) then decided she was going to get an abortion and tell him after she had it and it torn him apart. Now my only issuse is she scarred him and that i can never say i was the first with his baby but i still have the title on only so I can see what you mean......posted by Teenmomof16......... Sorry for the format I'm on my phone.
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  • I ran across an ad a few weeks ago looking for a sperm donor. It was a happily married, financially secure couple but he was sterile. The thought was to meet up once a month until she became pregnant. I may have (strongly) encouraged my H to think about it Embarrassed However, I have seriously considered egg donation, and don't see it as much different (I do recognize that I have fairly unusual views about sex).
  • Huh.  Kinky.
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    I also spoke to them a month before it happen to let them know how it is going to be. I told them that the baby will be theres. My DH will be no baby-daddy and she is not his baby-mama. He is only a donor and will be treated as such.

    So glad she laid down the law there. On the phone. That will surely settle any future issues.

  • My favorite part so far is where she indignantly insists that this cockamamie plan was the result of careful deliberation.  They worked long and hard at this, yo.
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  • What a mess. 
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  • ooo ooo ooohhh...my new favorite part:  I know alot of you are like WTF, which is understandable but many of you probably dont any homosexual friends.

    Nobody understands the gayz like she does.  Except her utterly selfless DH.  

    On a side note, do we think she's confusing the side effects of plan B with pregnancy?  Furthering the theory that her DH wanted a three way and his bff wanted to watch?   This is her 3rd pregnancy - she should know by now that not much happens at 10 days. 

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  • First of all, what?  Second of all, an unmedicated IUI is not even that expensive and so much less gross.  Third of all, wait until Baby Mama realizes she can file for child support. 
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    In all seriousness...what????

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  • imagecaden:

    I also spoke to them a month before it happen to let them know how it is going to be. I told them that the baby will be theres. My DH will be no baby-daddy and she is not his baby-mama. He is only a donor and will be treated as such.

    So glad she laid down the law there. On the phone. That will surely settle any future issues.

    I am so glad someone else caught this!

    This is SO a paternity/child support lawsuit in 10 months. 

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    I ran across an ad a few weeks ago looking for a sperm donor. It was a happily married, financially secure couple but he was sterile. The thought was to meet up once a month until she became pregnant. I may have (strongly) encouraged my H to think about it Embarrassed However, I have seriously considered egg donation, and don't see it as much different (I do recognize that I have fairly unusual views about sex).

    um, except that with egg donation, you actually 'donate' your egg. You are talking about your husband donating sperm by having actual sex with another woman. Also, you are legally protected with sperm/egg donation. 

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    imagecurmudgeon:
    I ran across an ad a few weeks ago looking for a sperm donor. It was a happily married, financially secure couple but he was sterile. The thought was to meet up once a month until she became pregnant. I may have (strongly) encouraged my H to think about it Embarrassed However, I have seriously considered egg donation, and don't see it as much different (I do recognize that I have fairly unusual views about sex).

    um, except that with egg donation, you actually 'donate' your egg. You are talking about your husband donating sperm by having actual sex with another woman. Also, you are legally protected with sperm/egg donation. 

    Yup. We did not get far enough to determine if adoption would be necessary, but I am aware of the legal ramifications and these would have been dealt with prior to any action.

  • imagedoctorwho:

    ooo ooo ooohhh...my new favorite part:  I know alot of you are like WTF, which is understandable but many of you probably dont any homosexual friends.

     

    Yes because all homosexuals find straight people to mate with in order to produce offspring. Confused

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