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Dh says he doesnt fantazise

Today my h told me he doesnt fantazise. Which I dont understand, as I frequeNtly have sex fantasies. I doubly dont get it because he yells me how often he thinks about sex? He just kept saying I dont have scenarios in my mind like you? I am frankly very weorded out by this. I figured je just felt uncomfortable talking to me about them, but to just not have any? Cant wrap my head around it. Any body have any thoughts? He looks at porn, so maybe that just takes over for him.?

Re: Dh says he doesnt fantazise

  • Not everyone is blessed with a great imagination. My self included. So I watch porn. Works for me.
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  • So you never find yourself thinking about having sex w your dh diring the day and what you hope goes on between you?
  • I don't. The only fantasies I have consist of a beautifully organized pantry, a new house, and my baby napping. Maybe I'm weird though.
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  • How to you get in the mood for sex or desire ypur husband if you dont think about sex?
  • My husband doesnt fantasize about different things either. He does about me...are you saying your husband doesnt even fantasize about you and him????
  • Maybe he does and he just doesnt want to talk about it.  But lets say he doesnt, as long as he puts out, I wouldnt care.
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  • Foreplay gets me in the mood.
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  • Thats what he made it sound like, he tried to backtrack when I asked him about it again and said that of course he thinks about me. Then he said he'd be willing to go along with whatever I fantasized about.

  • I think about sex in the abstract and desire my H when away from him, but I do not fantasize (daydream with scenarios) ::shrug::  Remember, sure. Ask him to pick up lube on the way home, sure. I think PP had it right with having/not having a robust imagination. At any rate, I don't think it's weird, his brain just operates differently than yours, which I'm sure is the case in other areas, right?
  • As long as you're happy with your sex life otherwise and he's not mad at you for having fantasies, I don't really see a problem.

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