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Why am I going out with this guy?
I updated my blog with a bunch of posts this weekend b/c I've been sick 
if you are interested.
So tomorrow I am having lunch with "R". Our conversations initially were really good... then he asked me out and had to "see how his week went, maybe this weekend".
He messages me on Friday to ask me out for lunch on Sunday. I told him I already had plans could we do lunch one day the next week. His response "Good luck with your weekend!!!!" (what does that mean?)
Then he messages me the next Thursday to ask me out for lunch on Saturday (yesterday). Again I already had plans.
I said something like.... lunch during the week is usually easier for me, even if it is short notice. Weekends are more difficult but I can make it work with a few more days notice (to me, 36 hrs notice is ridiculous for a weekend! who doesn't have weekend plans by Thursday let alone Friday?)
His response, "why can't you get together on the weekend, are you married??" He also told me my profile stated weekends were better for me, it did not. He then says "I hope you find what you're looking for". I get it to some degree, he asked me out twice and twice I was busy. But I explained why.
He came back after that last message saying "if blondes have more fun, when are we going to have fun???" To me saying "I hope you find what you're looking for" is code for "fuckoff I'm done trying with you". Another weird thing is that he emails and once texted me at like 3 in the morning. I'm hoping the 3am text just got delayed or something. I mean why would you text someone at 3 in the morning?? I understand email, I've had insomnia before.
Anyway, sorry this got be so long and no real point to it other than stay tuned and tomorrow afternoon I should have an interesting story at least.
Re: Why am I going out with this guy?
I can't help but wonder if he's got a few ladies he's communicating with since it seems like he's mixing you up with someone else and is all hot and cold.
I don't know that I would bother going out with him because he seems sort of douchey, to be honest.
*scurries off to read your blog*
I totally agree maybe he needs to get a spreadsheet
One thing I have learned this week is that 95% of men that are dating online are seeing more than one woman at a time.
I'm cool with seeing (or chatting with) multiple people, but one should make sure they can keep them straight!
Agreed.
This guy also sounds like a D-bag. Regardless of whether or not he mixed you up with someone else his responses seem childish. Drop him like it's not hot.
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I have no idea why you would agree to meet him ... Maybe he looks good in his profile pic?? He seems annoying to me so I wouldn't meet up with him
I thought you were taking a break from dating?
This, like your post said - why are you going out with this guy?
ugh, it was a combination of morbid curiosity and being bullied into it by him.
I'm too nice sometimes.
Thank God he cancelled, something came up with work. We asked if we could reschedule and I'm just going to tell him I don't think it's going to work out. I have a feeling he's going to come back with some smartass comment too. Ugh, thank God he doesn't have my real #
Why even reply? Just stop talking to him.
That's my line of thought. If you want better men to go out with and better treatment, you just have to keep your standards high and know when to say "buh-bye" and cut off communcation.
I don't like loose ends, would rather end it than have to hear back from him again on Tuesday. At least now it's done.
I'm glad i read all the responses before I posted because I was going to agree with everyone else and drop him. I'm glad you put your foot down and dumped the dude. His comments screamed a$$hole so you lucked out that he cancelled.
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Why would you go out with someone that bullied you? That makes no sense... you don't have to meet up with guys just because they ask you out.
Online dating isn't the place to let men bully you into meeting them... it's a really bad idea as there are lots of crazy people.
Good question