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I caved

I said that I was going to wait until we'd been together 4 months to add him to facebook, but I caved and did it last night. We're at 3 months this week.

It's silly, but I added the last guy early, and it sucked to have to delete him when we broke up. So this time I gave myself some arbitrary time frame in which I figured by that time, we'd be serious and not have to worry about the awkward deletion thing. My relationships usually never last longer than 2 months, so I thought double that would be good. 

Oh well! He's made no secret of the fact that he intends to stick around for a long time, so it's all good ;-)

Re: I caved

  • uhoh, is adding to FB bad? I add guys to fb right away. lol. Is that a no-no?
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  • For me it is, because I hate having to delete them when we break up and/or he acts like a ragingdick and I don't want him to see my stuff anymore! lol
  • Oh, ok. I have no issues with deleting if we stop talking. lol
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  • imageLeahMelanieNJ:
    uhoh, is adding to FB bad? I add guys to fb right away. lol. Is that a no-no?

     I add early too. I have no trouble deleting (and blocking), and I'd rather be able to check him out as early as possible. 

    She's crafty - and she's just my type.
  • I have yet to add D and we've been going on 8 months... he's never on it, but I did block his ex... she already facebook stalked me.
  • I don't think it's a big deal, I also have no problem deleting/blocking if things don't work out - whether we dated for a month or a year.
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  • imagestarburst604:
    I don't think it's a big deal, I also have no problem deleting/blocking if things don't work out - whether we dated for a month or a year.

    Agreed. The only issue I have is letting someone know too much info about me before I know them well enough. No issues deleting 

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  • imageJellymanKelly:

    imageLeahMelanieNJ:
    uhoh, is adding to FB bad? I add guys to fb right away. lol. Is that a no-no?

     I add early too. I have no trouble deleting (and blocking), and I'd rather be able to check him out as early as possible. 

    Yeah, this is why I like to add early. I feel like it's this little biography... if it turns out he's got a bunch of tags in pictures with drunk sl(_)ts hanging on him, I don't waste my time. Or if he lists his favorite band as Nickelback.

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  • My BF doesn't even have a FB, so no worries there. I did however, FB stalk his ex-wife and then promptly blocked her so that she couldn't do the same to me ;-)
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  • imagekippersophie:
    imageJellymanKelly:

    imageLeahMelanieNJ:
    uhoh, is adding to FB bad? I add guys to fb right away. lol. Is that a no-no?

     I add early too. I have no trouble deleting (and blocking), and I'd rather be able to check him out as early as possible. 

    Yeah, this is why I like to add early. I feel like it's this little biography... if it turns out he's got a bunch of tags in pictures with drunk sl(_)ts hanging on him, I don't waste my time. Or if he lists his favorite band as Nickelback.

    I think I love you!

  • imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageJellymanKelly:

    imageLeahMelanieNJ:
    uhoh, is adding to FB bad? I add guys to fb right away. lol. Is that a no-no?

     I add early too. I have no trouble deleting (and blocking), and I'd rather be able to check him out as early as possible. 

    Yeah, this is why I like to add early. I feel like it's this little biography... if it turns out he's got a bunch of tags in pictures with drunk sl(_)ts hanging on him, I don't waste my time. Or if he lists his favorite band as Nickelback.

    I think I love you!

    Haha! I love friendships based on a mutual hatred of terrible music.

    If a guy likes nickelback there's a good chance he can't dance but still tries, and throws the "rock" hand gesture out every once in a while. Gross.

    Vacation
  • imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageJellymanKelly:

    imageLeahMelanieNJ:
    uhoh, is adding to FB bad? I add guys to fb right away. lol. Is that a no-no?

     I add early too. I have no trouble deleting (and blocking), and I'd rather be able to check him out as early as possible. 

    Yeah, this is why I like to add early. I feel like it's this little biography... if it turns out he's got a bunch of tags in pictures with drunk sl(_)ts hanging on him, I don't waste my time. Or if he lists his favorite band as Nickelback.

    I think I love you!

    Haha! I love friendships based on a mutual hatred of terrible music.

    If a guy likes nickelback there's a good chance he can't dance but still tries, and throws the "rock" hand gesture out every once in a while. Gross.

    Please come here and let's go out to the bar and find these men, point at them and laugh manically! Pllleaasseee!!!

  • imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageJellymanKelly:

    imageLeahMelanieNJ:
    uhoh, is adding to FB bad? I add guys to fb right away. lol. Is that a no-no?

     I add early too. I have no trouble deleting (and blocking), and I'd rather be able to check him out as early as possible. 

    Yeah, this is why I like to add early. I feel like it's this little biography... if it turns out he's got a bunch of tags in pictures with drunk sl(_)ts hanging on him, I don't waste my time. Or if he lists his favorite band as Nickelback.

    I think I love you!

    Haha! I love friendships based on a mutual hatred of terrible music.

    If a guy likes nickelback there's a good chance he can't dance but still tries, and throws the "rock" hand gesture out every once in a while. Gross.

    Please come here and let's go out to the bar and find these men, point at them and laugh manically! Pllleaasseee!!!

    Where are you anyway? I am in NY... and I love to go out for the expressed sole purpose of laughing at men.

    Vacation
  • imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageJellymanKelly:

    imageLeahMelanieNJ:
    uhoh, is adding to FB bad? I add guys to fb right away. lol. Is that a no-no?

     I add early too. I have no trouble deleting (and blocking), and I'd rather be able to check him out as early as possible. 

    Yeah, this is why I like to add early. I feel like it's this little biography... if it turns out he's got a bunch of tags in pictures with drunk sl(_)ts hanging on him, I don't waste my time. Or if he lists his favorite band as Nickelback.

    I think I love you!

    Haha! I love friendships based on a mutual hatred of terrible music.

    If a guy likes nickelback there's a good chance he can't dance but still tries, and throws the "rock" hand gesture out every once in a while. Gross.

    Please come here and let's go out to the bar and find these men, point at them and laugh manically! Pllleaasseee!!!

    Where are you anyway? I am in NY... and I love to go out for the expressed sole purpose of laughing at men.

    In Wisconsin....I can promise lots of fun times!!

  • I NEVER add guys to Facebook, unless they really are just friends.
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  • imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageJellymanKelly:

    imageLeahMelanieNJ:

     

    I think I love you!

    Haha! I love friendships based on a mutual hatred of terrible music.

    If a guy likes nickelback there's a good chance he can't dance but still tries, and throws the "rock" hand gesture out every once in a while. Gross.

    Please come here and let's go out to the bar and find these men, point at them and laugh manically! Pllleaasseee!!!

    Where are you anyway? I am in NY... and I love to go out for the expressed sole purpose of laughing at men.

    In Wisconsin....I can promise lots of fun times!!

    I have family in Kaukana and Combined Locks WI!

    Vacation
  • imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageDorisWE:
    imagekippersophie:
    imageJellymanKelly:

    imageLeahMelanieNJ:

     

    I think I love you!

    Haha! I love friendships based on a mutual hatred of terrible music.

    If a guy likes nickelback there's a good chance he can't dance but still tries, and throws the "rock" hand gesture out every once in a while. Gross.

    Please come here and let's go out to the bar and find these men, point at them and laugh manically! Pllleaasseee!!!

    Where are you anyway? I am in NY... and I love to go out for the expressed sole purpose of laughing at men.

    In Wisconsin....I can promise lots of fun times!!

    I have family in Kaukana and Combined Locks WI!

    Wisconsin people are awesome....and we're really good at drinking!

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