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HELP : I'm Obsessed With My Girlfriend
my guy friend's story:
I am constantly day in and day out with this girl..
last whole summer we have spent literally every day together for the past month and a half, im sleeping at her house, shes not sleeping at mine. I have my cloths over there, shes doing her thing, but im doing her thing as well. My life is suffering, my jobs not as profitable, and even though im only 20 years old i recognise this is a problem.
the girl is insainly beautiful, literally, we go places and people ****ing stare and say ****, shes THAT hot.. shes a beautiful spanish girl.. but ive fallen in love with her..
right now im at work waiting for her, she doesnt mind she loves the attention, but i cant stand being away from her..
btw i lost my virginity to this girl, weve been seeing eachother for 4 months, shes got me insainly whipped, ill do anything for her and if i do something wrong we get in fights but no matter what she says to me i come running back because im afraid of being alone.
i dont really have that many friends i keep in touch with, she is my only life, her and my work and working out in the gym (with her).. has consumed my life.
ive lost almost 20 pounds, and im suffering but i love the ****ign girl so much it makes me literally sick.. sick to the stomach, i get depressed when im with her, and when im away.
right now im sweating her, i feel like ive been driven insaine, LITERALLY, i cant think right anymore, i just want her to love me..
i really need help, i am too scared to break up wiuth her because ill miss her company and i need help, but i dont know what to do..
i dont want to be hurt by leaving her and being aloen, shes a great person but im sick, i feel sick right now...
i know its my insecurities that drive me this way, but i think this relationshiip is unhealthy.. ive actually put my hands on her in one of our arguments because im a dumbass and i got too emotional.. thats how serious this **** is.. nothing major just a push and a shove.. but thats ****ed up and i dont know whats wrong with me and i cant let that **** happen again ever...
i work with her, i dont want to lose my job but i cant even be in her vicinity without falling deeply in love with her to the point of being sick.
help me please someone i dont know what to do, im afraid ill regret this all and end up getting her pregnant and then being ****ed..
how do i get out of this?
im writing this out of desperation, i know it sounds sad, but im desperate, i havent been on the internet in a while ive stopped my regular life to want to make her life better.. somethings a little off here...`
i need some serious advice, i know i cant really give you guys reps but please help me out, i know someones been through this besides me, im whipped, im disrepected by her on a daily basis and i put up with it to the point where im sick to my sotmach just so i can have sex with her (dont even like the sex as much as i like making her happy)...
yes its quite ****ed up,i just want her to be happy, ill **** her just to please her..
Re: HELP : I'm Obsessed With My Girlfriend
get help.
professional help.
Shiit, you're right. I was had.
D'oh.
"That chick wins at Penises, for sure." -- Fenton
I have to give it up for the length of the post. Most of them only do two sentences.
It's a good thing this is fake, though, or we'd have to get Officer McLaughlin to file a protection order for this girl.
"As of page 2 this might be the most boring argument ever. It's making me long for Rape Day." - Mouse