As you ladies know I was dating/seeing/whatever you want to to call it someone for the last month and all was great... we were inseperable, there was talk of meeting the parents, were planning a vacation for next month, I got him a gate card for my apt. complex, were constantly texting and emailing each other when we weren't together, had decided we were "exclusive", etc to him not responding to any of my texts as of Sunday.
Saturday he had a wedding and was going to come out after the wedding because we hadn't seen each other all week because he was on call and I never heard from him the rest of the night. So then Sunday morning I get this text message... "Babe can you meet me at my house and bring Nala, I drank a little much and not sure if I should drive. I'm sorry I want to see ou... sorry I didn't make it out... miss you... it's almost 9 and just wanna wake up with you tomorrow...". So I responded back saying too bad I didn't get that text last night and he said he had sent it at 8:30pm. So he then said he wanted to see me really bad and was on his way to his parents house and would call me when he left to come out and that was the last I heard from him pretty much.
I don't get it... i'm absolutely heartbroken. I know our "relationship" formed VERY fast but it just felt right so I was okay with it all. I am not the kind of girl that will call or text and be like WTF either... instead I drive myself crazy thinking I did something and well up in tears anytime I think about it. One of my biggest pet peeves is being left hanging... SOB this sucks!
Vent over lol.
Re: Dating BLOWS!!!
I broke down and emailed him... now to see if he responds... I'll let you ladies know.
First weight loss goal - 40lbs... DONE! Second weight loss goal - 17lbs...
Could have written this myself. Don't waste your time worrying about it Blonde.
please follow up and let us know!
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That's fudged up. You'd think that as we get older, men are able to communicate a little more but then there are jerkoff's like this that remind us NOPE, NOT TRUE!!
I wonder if there was an ex in his life that is now creeping back into the picture, causing him to be torn? Very weird. You're worth more than that. Thank him for the sex (or the fun, whatever you want to call "it") and ON TO THE NEXT ONE!
I'm sorry!
Call me a cockeyed optimist, but maybe, b/w the travel and work, something legit came up?. Regardless, he for sure owes you an apology for not at least saying, 'hey, I've got drama, no worries, will be in touch asap'. Or something.
Hang in there!