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Sometimes it feels as if FHA...
Is looking for something to trip you up with, so they have a reason not to give you the loan. We have been able (so far) to provide every single BS paperwork they've requested. I don't want to be specific here because we're still in the process, but if we ever get there (less than 28 days) I will try to remember to come back and describe the ridiculousness of some of these requests. It gets to the point where you feel like you're being singled out...but others must go through this too...right?
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Re: Sometimes it feels as if FHA...
The whole lending process can be really difficult at times, FHA or not.
I was just speaking with my Dr. at my appointment yesterday. He's moving and he said that the hoops he was having to jump through to get a mortgage were ridiculous. He's a doctor and I believe that his wife is one as well, so obviously they have great incomes, he said they have great credit, no outstanding debt, and he said that he wasn't buying anything pricey, but the bank was giving him the hardest time. He was starting to get concerned they were going to turn them down. That's crazy to me!
It's making me really second think if I really want to go through the process of selling our house and buying again. It just seems so stressful, and maybe not worth it.
Sure it's a PITA, but can you blame them? Look at the mess that was created by them NOT being thorough enough, and NOT getting documentation for assets, income, etc. over the course of the early 2000s.
A happy medium would be nice, but I totally get why it is the way it is now.
I think that is a huge issue. People who go into it not knowing the guidelines..but in all fairness, the guidelines are different for each and every person. Which then becomes a paradox. Each person has a unique financial, work, and living situation. So even if a new person were to be wise enough to sit down and attempt to familiarize themselves with the process I don't think it would help much because they will still find a stone left to turn.
I'm just trying to give everyone here a heads up while using the opportunity to let off a little steam as well. I know it's a necessary evil, but it doesn't take away from the fact that it's totally frustrating and nerve-wracking.
i completely agree. and i'm a little comforted that it's not just me going though this.
our bank is currently re-examining the home we want to purchase (with a FHA loan, assessment has been done) to make sure that the 50 year old 1st addition has an 18 inch space between the floor and ground. they had to remove a window in the basement and then they have to send a camera into the space to measure it. complete ridiculousness. i feel they are looking for any reason to not approve this loan and it's really pissing me off. it blows my mind that they are going to these lengths to research a 50 year old building code and wasting time and money.
i don't even know what i will do if this deal falls though because if this dumb ***.