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GAH
BIL's girlfriend wants to come over tonight to talk about their relationshit issues.
There are dead puppies with better personalities than her, but I want to hear the dirt since she's prone to accidently over share.
Background:
She just turned 21 and has a 4 year old from a previous relationship. She and BIL live with her parents. She works part-time as a waitress for "fun money" and her parents foot the bill for her baby. BIL is taking his sweet time (7 years) to get his Engineering degree because he doesn't want responsibility (his words). And she wants to get married ASAP and them build a new home. They have 1600 in savings for this.
Do I have a cracked emotional compass for telling her it's ok to come over to hear the new issue? My curiousity is outweighing genuine concern.
Re: GAH
Will this become boring when you become her go-to for whining about the loser BIL and won't leave him?
This is the only risk I see to your plan.
no, that was me.