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XH is getting married tomorrow.

I texted this info to my mom, and her reply was:

Should we go?

me: hah!

mom: where is it?

 

I think she is halfway serious.

Look with your special eyes.

Re: XH is getting married tomorrow.

  • You should totally go, toss a bunch of bird seed around the entrance of the church so a large crowd of birds gather. Then startle them just as the happy couple comes out, if pigeons gather they'll poop all over them!

    (thank you wild kratts for that piece of useless knowledge)

    I will come up with other things tomorrow night while drunk (it's my birthday and the kids with be at camp grandma), I'm sure. I'll try and post a list, but I cannot promise proper spelling or grammar.

    I must away now, the kids are upstairs unsupervised (we need wi-fi bad).

  • You absolutely should not go. That poor woman is going to have as hard a time as you did with him... the least she should get out of it is a nice wedding.
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  • Never in a million years would I consider crashing my xh's wedding.  Ever ever.

    Ever.

     

    I think it's really funny that my mom gets all mean girls when discussing him, though.

    Look with your special eyes.
  • My condolences to the new wife.

     

    Really, I haven't been around long enough to know your story but you always seem really nice so I'll hate him for you.

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  • image8daysaweek:

    My condolences to the new wife.

     

    Really, I haven't been around long enough to know your story but you always seem really nice so I'll hate him for you.

    yay!

    Abusive a-hole, to sum it up.  Married at 22, divorced by 24.

    Look with your special eyes.
  • My condolences to the bride.
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  • imagelint+licker:
    image8daysaweek:

    My condolences to the new wife.

     

    Really, I haven't been around long enough to know your story but you always seem really nice so I'll hate him for you.

    yay!

    Abusive a-hole, to sum it up.  Married at 22, divorced by 24.

     

    Well, I'm glad you got out and still send my condolences to her.

    My first marriage was a similar situation. Way too young and about a minute after the ring was on, he started punching holes in the walls every time he was angry with me, which was a lot. I left just after our first anniversary and never looked back.

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  • imageBowiesInSpace:
    My condolences to the bride.

    This.  I think you should celebrate...just not AT the wedding.  

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  • imagesteve&heather:

    You should totally go, toss a bunch of bird seed around the entrance of the church so a large crowd of birds gather. Then startle them just as the happy couple comes out, if pigeons gather they'll poop all over them!

    I like this idea. But I agree with the others, it's better if you dont go. Wonder if she knows what she's in for?

  • Remind me, this is the disney extravaganza?

    What a clever bit of closure this is. Awkward but... acceptable!

  • Sounds like he is someone else's problem now, haha!

    I don't know if I would attend, have to say. Unless it would be to take advantage of a free open bar... just kidding. 


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  • image8daysaweek:

    My condolences to the new wife.

     

    Really, I haven't been around long enough to know your story but you always seem really nice so I'll hate him for you.

     Same here. Sorry you had to know such a bastard.

  • Did you celebrate??
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