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I am on a train to hell
Ok that is a little dramatic, lol.
I don't know if anyone remembers, but I shared a story about my BFF cutting me out Of her life with no explanation. She won't tell anyone why she hates me. She was one of my BMs. She even dropped out of grad school because she couldn't bear the thought of having to spend time with me.
Well it's been two years since she cut me out. Its been almost three since we've seen each other. I'm on e was to our mutual bffs Bach party. There are only 6 of us, and the bride and former friend are the only people i know. This could really suck. At least I planned it so I'm arriving by train at e same time as former friends plane, so we can get e awkwardness out of the way before the bride arrives. I don't want this to ruin her weekend.
Uggggg
Re: I am on a train to hell
Oh, I thought this had already happened. I remember you talking about seeing her again, but I thought that was awhile ago. I actually was wondering a couple of months ago how that went.
No one knows and they find it strange. One of our mutal friends actually tried to get her into counseling. She had other erratic behaviors at the some time and has a history of mental illness in her family. It led to a lot of rocky relationships in our bigger circle. Some people cut her out because they were upset even though I told people not to. It's been a mess. I'm not mad, just sad, really.
The title of this post sounds like the premise for a Nicholas Cage movie.
All kidding aside, that really sucks. The possible mental issues probably have everything to do with why she cut you out. I've seen people with untreated mental problems cut formerly close friends out completely after vilifying them for a multitude of reasons, most of them flabbergasting to the "offending" parties.
Significant drinking might be your friend this weekend.
We need an update this morning
Hope it went well.