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Relationship 10 commandments

In pre-marital my finance and i did a marriage 10 commandments. Since then we have both made improvements in our relationship. Some of his were to respect him as a man, respect his car, try not to laugh at the not so smart things he does. Some of mine were, to let me know before you come home late, Always think before you do not so smart things, and one very important to me Try not to have intimate relationships with other women.

Definition of intimate  

(1. characterized by a close or warm personal relationship an intimate friend

2. deeply personal, private, or secret
3. (often postpositive; foll by with) Euphemistic having sexual relations (with)
4.
a.  (postpositive; foll by with) having a deep or unusual knowledge (of)
b.  (of knowledge) deep; extensive
5. having a friendly, warm, or informal atmosphere an intimate nightclub
6. of or relating to the essential part or nature of something; intrinsic
7. (Linguistics) denoting the informal second person of verbs and pronouns in French and other languages
n
a close friend
I'm not saying that he cant have female friends, he can and i am fine with them, but when it comes to something like this i am not comfortable. 

In saying so, He has a Female friend that he texts about everyday, she seems harmless, but i still feel replaced sometimes. Should i worry, what should i do??  

tuckersmomma

Re: Relationship 10 commandments

  • Have you told him that it makes you feel uncomfortable?

    This is where I would start. 

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  • we have talked about another women, but this is a childhood friend and i don't know if he will feel persecuted if i bring it up
    tuckersmomma
  • what was the communication portion of your premarital counseling like? because you seem to have trouble with it.

    he may feel persecuted, but you feel uncomfortable. you don't have to attack him, just tell him what you said here. that you expressed he not have an intimate relationship with other women and that, while you know she is an old childhood friend, you are feeling replaced and its making you uncomfortable.

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  • Some of his were to respect him as a man, respect his car,

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  • Unless the car is KITT from Knight Rider, I'm not respecting it.  Sorry.
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  • ^^^^^^LOLZ. GROSS.
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    I bet her FUPA's name is Shane, like the gunslinger/drifter of literature.--HappyTummy
  • Everyone is amused by this car business, but I want to know what "respect him as a man" means. Of course I have an idea, but I want to see it typed out.
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  • Did you show him the dictionary definition of intimate?
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  • image_Fenton:
    Everyone is amused by this car business, but I want to know what "respect him as a man" means. Of course I have an idea, but I want to see it typed out.

    Don't throw trash at him, keep him clean, call him by his full name.

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  • Try not to have intimate relationships with other women.

    Well, bless his heart. 

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  • image_Fenton:
    Everyone is amused by this car business, but I want to know what "respect him as a man" means. Of course I have an idea, but I want to see it typed out.

    start a new thread, dumbass!

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    image_Fenton:
    Everyone is amused by this car business, but I want to know what "respect him as a man" means. Of course I have an idea, but I want to see it typed out.

    start a new thread, dumbass!

    Go back to ML with your start-a-new-posting ways!

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  • I suck at communication, And i easily feel replaced!! You guys are great!! I should just talk about it. Were seeing her at a formal event on friday :( should i wait to lack an award moment
    tuckersmomma
  • imageemilyparks3507:
    I suck at communication, And i easily feel replaced!! You guys are great!! I should just talk about it. Were seeing her at a formal event on friday :(should i wait to lack an award moment

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    Puppies!!

    I know. I can't stop watching.

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    Husbands should be like Kleenex: Soft, strong, and disposable.
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    imageemilyparks3507:
    I suck at communication, And i easily feel replaced!! You guys are great!! I should just talk about it. Were seeing her at a formal event on friday :(should i wait to lack an award moment

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    Oooh, I want three pugs. 

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    People who lack award moments break their friends hip.
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    imageemilyparks3507:

    In pre-marital my finance and i did a marriage 10 commandments. Since then we have both made improvements in our relationship. Some of his were to respect him as a man, respect his car, try not to laugh at the not so smart things he does. Some of mine were, to let me know before you come home late, Always think before you do not so smart things, and one very important to me Try not to have intimate relationships with other women.

    Well, so long as he tries.

    Honestly, I don't get it.  Wouldn't respecting each other and not having intimate relationships with other people kind of be a given? 

    Has he had a problem with cheating (emotional or physical) in the past? 

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