July 2009 Weddings
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Engagement Party

So we are going to an engagement party tonight for 2 of our friends. I assume we bring a gift. I was thinking a card and money. What is your input? If money, how much would you give?
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Re: Engagement Party

  • I'd probably do a card and money, too. If I wanted to do something different, I'd probably do wine glasses and a nice bottle of wine, assuming they drink, and that they would actually want wine glasses (as in, don't already have a ton). If I did money, I'd probably do $50 if they weren't really close friends, $100 if they were. But, take this with a grain of salt since I live in NY, the land of expensive weddings and extravagant gifts :).
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  • For something like that I would probably do a gift because I wouldn't want to spend a ton of money and putting anything less than $50 in a card I think would look cheap.  

    The standard here is about $100 for a wedding gift.  

    I'm guessing they don't have a registry yet if it's an engagement party (I've never actually been to one).  Maybe you could put together some kind of wedding "kit".  I also like the idea of wine glasses and a bottle of wine.  I don't think I'm much help :) 

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  • Hmmm, I agree with the girls. I'd do a nice card and maybe $50 or look for a nice gift which maybe could come in under $50, more like $30-$40, like the bottle of wine or champagne and some nice glasses, or something to that effect. Or maybe like Lindsay said, put together a wedding kit, like a couple planning books, a bottle of wine (because sometimes the planning process can be stressful as we all know and wine makes everything better ;)), and some other wedding/bride type stuff.

    The only engagement gifts we received, even though we didn't have a party, were my BFF/MOH gave me some planning books, and Tony's BFF/BM and his wife sent us Waterford Crystal toasting flutes, but they are high rollers and always send extravagant stuff. I really appreciated it though, and of course we used them at our wedding. Now that I think about it, that could be a good gift too, but maybe not something as extreme as Waterford, just some nice toasting flutes.

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  • I would do a bottle of wine, champagne or some kind of sentimental gift (like a willow tree or something like that). 
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  • I have never been to an engagement party where gifts were expected, if anything people just did cards alone or a bottle of wine.
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  • We got a lot of bottles of wine at our engagement party.  I think that should be fine.
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  • Bottle of wine or champagne and a card.  Or toasting flutes, like Yvonne suggested. 
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  • We didn't have an engagement party, but I would go with something smallish like the other girls suggested. 
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  • Bottle of wine (if they drink) and gift card to fave restaurNt ot movie... With a note saying that when the planning gets hectic to take a night off to just enjoy each other or a movie basket with redbox giftcard popcorn wine etc... 
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