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random language question - gifted vs. gave

Someone (SK maybe?) said something in a post below about someone "gifting" them something.  I've seen that usage more and more, but I always thought the correct term was "gave" as in "They gave us tickets" or I gave him tickets, not I gifted him tickets. 

(SK - I'm not singling you out - I see alot of people say this, you just jogged my memory)

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Re: random language question - gifted vs. gave

  • Most language purists aren't down with "gift" as a verb.  You "give" a "gift".  "Gift" ->"gifted" is often up there with "conversation" -> "conversate" on the list of nouns that should have been left well enough alone.

    That being said, it's obviously had a comfortable place among the pretentious set for awhile ("This was gifted to the museum by such and such") and the use is getting more popular generally.

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  • TBH, "gifted" is not a term I use often, though obviously I do sometimes. Somehow it (whether correct or not) seems more...gracious?...than saying "they gave him presents". Not sure why, and that's probably just MY perception of it, but just explaining how I arrived at that wording today :)
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  • Maybe it's a south-of-the-Mason-Dixon line thing? The only time I have every heard gifted used was in terms of large donations (cash or artifacts) to museums, or used when describing terms of a will. Honestly, I never heard it in normal conversating while I was growing up. (Sorry, rags, I couldn't resist.) Nobody EVERY used it, nor did they actually use "conversate", either.
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    Honestly, I never heard it in normal conversating while I was growing up. (Sorry, rags, I couldn't resist.)

    Lmao.  The guy I dated in law school used "conversate" on a very popular television show and I don't think he's heard the end of it to this day. 

    Anyway, I'm a bit of a purist myself - but I won't get snarky about verbification unless somebody tries to use "disrespect" as a verb. ;)

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