July 2009 Weddings
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Starting Over

So its totally on the soon side but I am pretty sure Ill marry Jacob. He feels sure too... Probably even more than me bc unlike me, he isnt jaded and skeptical of everything lol. I told him I want to date a minimum of a yr before engagement though... Anyway the topic comes up here and there about weddings... Gah!! Ive perused here and there, lurking and came across the second wedding board on the knot. The though of going onto a new wedding month board with super young, first time brides exhausts me. I came across this post though and wow... Almost all (except the kid thing) really really hit home...

 

http://m.theknot.com/forums/special-topic-wedding-boards_second-weddings_its-normal-1 

Re: Starting Over

  • I'm SO glad you are so happy with Jacob!!  You deserve it so very much! <3
  • imageNittanyLionLaura:
    I'm SO glad you are so happy with Jacob!!  You deserve it so very much! <3

    Yep - this 110%! I am so excited for you and you know we will all love to help you plan another wedding!

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  • "It's normal to cut and paste this into a document that you can refer to daily, just to remind yourself of exactly how normal you are"

    Ha ha... I just did that!  Not that I need it daily any time soon, but I'm hoping I will someday.  

    Crystal - I am so happy for you and what you've found with Jacob!  I think you're smart to wait a year before engagement.  In the meantime, enjoy every minute with your man and this getting to know him phase.  Have fun lurking on wedding boards.  I can definitely understand a mix of emotions about a second wedding. 

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  • imagekrissyrose210:

    imageNittanyLionLaura:
    I'm SO glad you are so happy with Jacob!!  You deserve it so very much! <3

    Yep - this 110%! I am so excited for you and you know we will all love to help you plan another wedding!

    yay! Counting on it though it will be muuuuch smaller and more casual this time... 

  • I am so, so happy for you. And you don't have to join another wedding board if you don't want to, you can stay right here and we'll help you plan :) I also wanted to tell you that my best friend just married a man who has been married before. The wedding was absolutely beautiful and perfect and I don't think anyone even spent half a second thinking about the fact that he had done this before. The day was 100% about them and the incredible love they share- just as it should be. And I have no doubt that your day, when it comes, will be the exact same way!
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  • I'm sure that everyone on this board would be extremely happy to see some wedding planning posts again....there's no need to find a new anniversary board!

    So glad that you're happy and in such a healthy relationship. 

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    I'm sure that everyone on this board would be extremely happy to see some wedding planning posts again....there's no need to find a new anniversary board!

    So glad that you're happy and in such a healthy relationship. 

    This!! I am so happy and excited for you!! 

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  • I can't wait until you jump on here to tell us you are engaged! I am so happy for you.
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  • SO so so happy for you! Like everyone else said, no need to find another anniversary board. It will be so much fun to help you plan your wedding and hear all the details of your future engagement. :)
  • imagereenie83:

    I'm sure that everyone on this board would be extremely happy to see some wedding planning posts again....there's no need to find a new anniversary board!

    So glad that you're happy and in such a healthy relationship. 

    I completely agree!!! 

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  • The best part is that you have moved on and are extremely happy. You and Jacob will know when the time is right! I'm glad you have found someone that loves you for you!
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  • Im so excited for you!!! And so happy to hear that you make each other happy. 

    I hope you don't find another board for planning!!! I'd love to see wedding posts again, and we'd be more than happy to help you plan. No matter how big or small or elaborate or a simple beauty. :) Count me in! 

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