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ex boyfriend drama (not mine, his)
When I was 18 or 19 I dated this boy I really thought I was going to marry, which, makes me giggle. He totally broke my heart, I mean, it took me years to get over which makes me feel embarrassed. Then, when I was 23 or 24 I dated this other guy for like a month or something. Well, that relationship fizzled quite quickly because I figured out Guy #2 was really good friends with Guy #1 - at this time Guy #1 was married (for the first time) but I really didn't want anything to do with anyone having to do with Guy #1.
So, about eight months after I cooled things off with Guy #2 (and by cooled off, I mean, stopped returning his calls/texts because I am classy like that), Guy #1 called me in a PANIC. PANIC. I had no idea it was him or else I wouldn't have answered the phone, trust me. Anyway, I guess Guy #2 had told him we had slept together and he was "tortured by it." I am totally serious. I NEVER slept with Guy #2. We dated ONE MONTH. Gross. But still, what difference does it make?
I swear to God, 10 minutes ago I received a text from Guy #1. He is now divorced from his third wife (he is real winner). I guess he ran into Guy #2 at the lake this past weekend. Guy #1 is all like "He told me you all slept together." I am like WTF, I am 33 years old, this was 10 years ago, get a life! He is all tortured by this, worried I have LIED TO HIM ABOUT IT. I was like "Dude. We dated when we were 18. I dated him when I was 23. I didn't sleep with him, I am not sure what it matters to you but find something else to obsess about, like one of your three ex wives."
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Re: ex boyfriend drama (not mine, his)
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that could help explain the 3 wives.
It is kind of sad because I think the first wife is actually a good person that is just really dumb. She had a kid with him too. Then, he ended up marrying this friend of his mom's - she was nearly 50 - ugh, that was scary. They were married an entire three months, then got divorced when he cheated on her with this other chick his own age. They weren't married long either.
Oh, he friended me on facebook right after I joined a few years ago. It was very creepy because I joined and then the next day BAM friend request. I blocked him from seeing anything of mine but, of course, saw all of his drama. Like the 50 year old and the younger chick (who had twins from another guy, I think) were really going at it on his page and then he deleted his page. I swear, I think DH and I spent a good 3 hours one night laying in bed getting caught up on the drama. And then POOF he was gone. What a shame. He may have gotten her pregnant too. I can't remember. Facebook at its finest, for sure. Anyway, he deleted his page nearly a year ago so I don't know anything else other than married to the younger chick and potentially divorced.
The first time I saw this post heading, I thought something totally different.
Ex-boyfriend drama (not mine, HIS)....my first thought was that HIS referred to your H...meaning he was having ex-boyfriend drama.
Obv, I figured it out pretty quickly, but my sleep deprivation caused a quite different first time interpretation.
I read it the same way at first!
you should have been like "oh, yeah, his wang was WAY bigger than yours!"
For realzies, #1 needs therapy more than Theresa from RHNJ