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Re: I found KC_13 a BFF
Those biitches need a reality check. I cannot believe the stuff I am reading in that thread. Are snarky brides generally this uneducated?
I am not gonna even read it. It will piss me off.
KC can be a douche, but you never heard her saying shitt like "let them starve."
How easily any of us can end up being on the shitty side of finances. Would they want us to have their attitude if they were ever in need?
Thank God for people with compassion and a heart.
If you can't in a years time figure out some way to feed and house yourself, maybe that's a form of natural selection.
Wow.
I have engaged with the moron now. I don't know why I even bother though. You cannot fix that kind of stupid.
Wish my keyboard had a cooter punch key.
Now now. Not vile.
Snarky.
But it's really about the kids for me. I don't care how awful it is that someone can't or won't find a job. I don't think kids should starve or go homeless because their parents are unemployed or underemployed (or can't find a job that will cover day care + bills).
Yet she thinks no extra coverage for additional kids? It's not the babies' fault!
Sorry no they past Snarky a while ago. They need to rename their board B*tchy Azz Brides and I think it might fit better.
And on a side note the idiots who have a problem with people biking in the streets kill me. Yes because me biking to my destination deserves your hatred while your lazy azz goes in a car. Hmm noo.
Ooooh, that might be my UO. We live near the preserve trails, and nothing makes me more insane than the hoards of bikers on the highway causing huge traffic back ups.
I get stabby.
But they are the BRIDE.
Respect.
Agree. Whether or not the parent is a huge fcvk up is irrelevant to me. No one wants to see the system abused, but I should hope we wouldn't make the children suffer. They didn't ask to be born and they are completely dependent on their parents. Don't screw them over.
Oh.
ETA: I bet that one chick in that UO thread said things like, "But this is MY DAY!!" multiple times on her wedding day. I bet she also got "post-wedding blues."
I wish one of them would've answered my question from last week. You know, about how in the world after the Clinton TANF changes, how people are welfare abusers and lifelong recipients.
Answered with real data from an independent third party.
No stories about a cousin's hairdresser's sister who pops out babies every few years and lives with her man who makes 6 figures and drives an Escalade.
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I started to read that, and felt my blood boil so I had to stop. Those girls are not living in reality.
It's as if they heard one story about someone somewhere that was abusing the system and it is what they base their entire opinion on.
I have a family member who has had what I consider to be a bogus lawsuit against a former employer for a supposed back injury. It has been going on for 3+ years. He has no chance of ever getting any money if by some stretch he were to receive judgement from this lawsuit since the former employer was arrested and has the IRS on his butt, etc. He is addicted to painkillers and has a history of drug abuse. Another family member pays their rent (>$2000/month), their 2 car payments (>$500 each), and various other bills. This family member also pays the lawyer. I know that she does it because she doesn't want the kids to suffer. They collect food stamps and welfare, and his wife signed something that says she is his caretaker so that she doesn't have to look for work or take classes that would help her find a job. They completely abuse the system and other people that help them. It makes me sick.
This does not make me think that this is the norm, or that if you can't find a job after a year you should starve.
Says the person with a ticker and *three* pictures dedicated to her daughter?
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Nice first post.
Oh well aren't you a gem.
I call them as I see them. Being new doesn't mean I don't get to point out hypocrites.
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ok...
wow.
Way harsh, Tai. Way harsh.