January 2012 Weddings
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Physical Friday

Similar to Frisky Friday.  Anyone have anything?

Michelle-I saw your b pics on GP. LOVED them!

Re: Physical Friday

  • Thanks!  I really want to do them again, but can't afford it right now. 

    Not sure if you want a confession or pic, ect.  My confession would be I wanted to jump DH this morning, but the need to not be late to work won.  Now I'm regretting that choice.  I apologize if it's TMI.

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  • We can do whatever people are comfortable with. I don't really have anything. Sex is like a once a month type thing in my household. So I feel lucky if I get it.
  • We're once a week type.  Sometimes more, sometimes less, but you can always tell when it's been longer than a week.  We both get super bitchy. 


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  • LOL this is me.  Once a week I would be happy.  I get snappy with J and then he'll ask about I point out.  I love charting so I can be like look....

     

  • DH and I were only about once a month but recently that has changed.  In the month of June we're already up to four times. :)

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  • Tara is the luckiest!
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    Tara is the luckiest!

    You too can change that. I have to make an effort but in the end it's worth it.


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  • I belong in the once a month category too Indifferent DH and I were talking about it before we both left that it needs to happen more often. I kinda have a feeling it will once we move in his with parents. Having to be "sneaky" is a turn on for me.

     They say the more you have it the more you want it... lets hope so! lol

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  • There is no changing in this relationship.  I have tried many many many times.

    J just isn't in the mood and then when he is he gets performance anxiety. 

  • imagejjbmstinco:

    There is no changing in this relationship.  I have tried many many many times.

    J just isn't in the mood and then when he is he gets performance anxiety. 

    Have you asked him why he gets performance anxiety?

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    Daisypath - (30fE)

  • Ya. Because when we first started doing it (remember he is my first and only) it hurt. So I think part of it is that he is afraid to hurt me again, even tho it has gotten better.

    Also he is the type of person that wants to make sure everything is perfect, so he worries if he is even good. I tell him that I think he is good and I don't have anyone to compare him too, so idk what is the big deal. 

    He also suffers from depression.  He hasn't had insurance in 3 years, so it hasn't been treated properly since.  Ours will kick in July 1st I think, so he will be going to the doctor for that to see if that helps. 

    I also think his testosterone needs to be checked.  But we need to wait for insurance first.

  • imagejjbmstinco:

    Ya. Because when we first started doing it (remember he is my first and only) it hurt. So I think part of it is that he is afraid to hurt me again, even tho it has gotten better.

    Also he is the type of person that wants to make sure everything is perfect, so he worries if he is even good. I tell him that I think he is good and I don't have anyone to compare him too, so idk what is the big deal. 

    He also suffers from depression.  He hasn't had insurance in 3 years, so it hasn't been treated properly since.  Ours will kick in July 1st I think, so he will be going to the doctor for that to see if that helps. 

    I also think his testosterone needs to be checked.  But we need to wait for insurance first.

    I wish J lots of luck!


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  • My DH has the opposite problem. His sex drive is really excelerated. He'd be happy if we could do once or twice a day.

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  • imagejjbmstinco:

    Ya. Because when we first started doing it (remember he is my first and only) it hurt. So I think part of it is that he is afraid to hurt me again, even tho it has gotten better.

    Also he is the type of person that wants to make sure everything is perfect, so he worries if he is even good. I tell him that I think he is good and I don't have anyone to compare him too, so idk what is the big deal. 

    He also suffers from depression.  He hasn't had insurance in 3 years, so it hasn't been treated properly since.  Ours will kick in July 1st I think, so he will be going to the doctor for that to see if that helps. 

    I also think his testosterone needs to be checked.  But we need to wait for insurance first.

     All of what you said makes total sense now. I kinda have a feeling that the depression may be the root of the problem. Yay for getting insurance soon so he can get himself in a better place.

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