Buying A Home
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Feeling Disillusioned

Did anyone else get to this point in the process of shopping for houses? There's just nothing out there right now that we like that is available (and in our price range!).

There was one house that we loved the pictures we saw and we loved the location - it became new on Friday, but it was listed as no showings until Monday the 4th. So we set up an appointment to see it Monday evening, but then someone signs a purchase contract at the sellers garage sale on Saturday. We didn't even get a chance to see it before we lost our chance to bid on it.

Luckily, we don't NEED to move right NOW, so I know that if I'll just be patient, the right house will come up. I'm just fed up with the whole process right now. I won't even let our realtor schedule any more showings.

"Don't look back, you can never look back." - Don Henley

Re: Feeling Disillusioned

  • I completely felt that way about 2 months into looking.  I even starting looking for a new apartment.  I found my place about 2 weeks later.  Hang in there!  
  • Yes.  We've been there a couple of times in the last 7 months.
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  • We definitely felt that way after about 3 months of looking. Unfortunately, when you have a very specific list of needs and wants, and a limited budget, it can take a long time to find the house and the deal that fit. The good news is that it is worth waiting for "the one", even though the waiting and looking parts are torture. And when you do find the right house and deal, it will all just fall together. We went through 3 other deals before this one. Each of them was torture and failed for one reason or another. But this one... this one has been a dream. When it's right, it's soooo right. :)
  • We put an offer in on a short sale that we loved last September, even though we were the second back-up offer at that point.  We kept looking casually for the next 9 months and saw absolutely nothing we were interested in.  Luckily our short sale eventually made its way down the line to us and we should be closing the 25th.  Hang in there!  Something will come up eventually.
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  • Thanks for the encouragement, all. I think I just need to take a step back and see what happens. I'm just used to being more proactive than this, but if there's nothing we like, there's nothing we like.

    I'm going to suspend the search for a week, and see what happens.

    "Don't look back, you can never look back." - Don Henley
  • It took us 7 months to find our house - including 2 failed offers.  We were so frustrated but then we found it.  Just hang in there, I know it sounds cliched but it WILL happen.
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  • I'm starting to get there. It seems like every time we think we like a house we find things that make us feel like we're going to be compromising to much.

    I just have to keep reminding myself that we don't have to move right now and that something will come along.

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  • I know that feeling all too well.  We ended up buying a house that needed some work, but we have an awesome kitchen now.  Still have more work to do though, but the location is perfect and we got the type of house that we wanted. 
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  • I hear you. I am getting to the point where I am going to start writing on houses without looking at them.
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