3's company?

Re: 3's company?

• ROFL ATTACK member

  

  July 2012

  As a guy, I can strictly tell you it's a fantasy.  Nothing good comes from a threesome, it takes complete trust from both parties to pull off a successful one with no backlash.  I suggest you ask him if he's opposed to you sleeping with another man while he watches.  Most men would not appreciate that.  If you're a one man/woman girl and you're not sure if you're open to it.  Stay away from it.  I truly sounds like he's wanting to have something more spice in the bedroom, I'd suggest talking to him about why he's on this fantasy kick.  

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• ReturnOfKuus member

  

  July 2012

  I'd find a new boyfriend, one who doesn't think that sex is basically glorified masturbation and fantasy fulfillment.  WTF.
  

  

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• CaptKDB

  July 2012

  Don't do it. I dated a guy who kept pressuring me into doing it and I did it for him. Well guess what? He did it because he wanted to sleep with other girls but also have a relationship with me. After a year and a half together, I found out he was cheating on me the whole relationship. You should be enough for him.

   And by the way, as 1 of 2 girls in the 3some, you won't get as much attention as you want and you do get jealous. It's not all that cracked up to be.

   Don't do it...just don't.  

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• SusanH. member

  

  July 2012

  tell him okay but the 3 has to be you, him and another guy. I bet anything he will NOT go for it!

   

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• jnjmommy0609 member

  July 2012

  Tell him to keep it a fantasy then. You would be going into this jealous and coming out of this insane. Be an awesome girlfriend another way. If he ever dumps you because of this then he's a f*ck face that you would be better off without.

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• chelljqueen member

  

  July 2012

  SusanH.:

  tell him okay but the 3 has to be you, him and another guy. I bet anything he will NOT go for it!

   

   

  This

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• KyleTrigger

  July 2012

  I second what most people said. I can almost guarantee this will end in a disaster. It was a little fantasy thing with us that my exh and i would talk about when we were getting down but both of us realized it would become a bad situation if we ever acted on the fantasy. If he is in to it and you have a healthy sex life talk it up and role play in the bedroom and if you are ok with it, watch some movies that have scenes like that in them, but don't go further than that.

  

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• heathervisser member

  July 2012

  ROFL ATTACK:

  As a guy, I can strictly tell you it's a fantasy.  Nothing good comes from a threesome, it takes complete trust from both parties to pull off a successful one with no backlash.  I suggest you ask him if he's opposed to you sleeping with another man while he watches.  Most men would not appreciate that.  If you're a one man/woman girl and you're not sure if you're open to it.  Stay away from it.  I truly sounds like he's wanting to have something more spice in the bedroom, I'd suggest talking to him about why he's on this fantasy kick.  

  Exactly this

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• molly&dale

  July 2012

  Don't do it! Sex should be an expression of your love for one another, not just getting off. This would cause me to seriously think about what the relationship means to him. And if it should continue.

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